Is it normal to love someone who doesn't love me for years

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I know a boy for 7 years. We used to be good friends but we don't even talk to each other now. Not because we are offended we just can't see each other often and I don't text him anymore because it has been a long time since we last talked and he doesn't text me unless I do. He is cool and complacent. I am beautiful and really successful but I never think that I am enough for him. I still have hope but at the same time I know that he is never going to love me. I always think about him and almost every night I see him in my dreams. Am I normal or obsessive? I am waiting for your comments.

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Based on 36 votes (21 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    7 years of wasted life obsessing over a guy who doesn't want you? He obviously doesn't think about you at all, unless you remind him you exist by texting him.
    Time to lose the school girl crush and move on to a more adult and rewarding relationship.

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    • itsnotnormal5
      8 years ago

      You pretend to sail the world from your mother's basement.

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  • Candysnuggles
    8 years ago

    just tell him

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  • Rubboyhamus
    8 years ago

    its abnormal.. cause its useless to spend time thinking of a guy who doesn't care of you.. move on and be productive in your life,, :)

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  • MrSexyJesus
    8 years ago

    Grab him by the balls when he is drunk and if he shakes his head its a no, if you shake his head then you are in luck.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago

    This guy is a fool.There is free pussy here for the taking.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Stop obsessing about this person. You're only hurting yourself and this ain't love, girl. It's infatuation, lust and obsession, but it ain't love. Stop wasting your precious time and forget about this one!

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Forget him and move on. He's playing games with you if he doesn't text you until you text him.

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  • Dazed_dreamer
    8 years ago

    quit 'waiting' and do it already

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    • MrSexyJesus
      8 years ago

      DON'T LET YOUR DREAMS BE DREAMS!!! JUST DO IT!!!

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Tell him. You must!

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    • someoneoutthere
      8 years ago

      How? He is not interested in me I know that

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        Maybe telling him will change his mind, or at least make him think about it a little bit. You gotta try.

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        • someoneoutthere
          8 years ago

          Really I have done so many things to make him understand this and I am not gonna make myself a fool again

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