Is it normal to love someone in a dream and not like them in real life???

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Ok so I recently had a dream about a guy I know at school, we arent really friends but were not enemies either and we barley talk. He rarely is a gentlemen to me and he teases me at times and hes rude. Anyway about the dream I dont exaclty know where it was like a bus stop?i dont know but I all of a sudden wrapped my arms around his waist and whisperd "be happy" in a serious tone then kissed his cheek when I let go he then hugged me back and said something to me which i cant remember then all i remember is that he just kept hugging me tightly and i woke up. And thats not the first time I had a dream about him like that, the first time I had a dream about him we were walking into school and he wrapped an arm around my waist and with the other he held my hand, even in my dream i remember thinking "what the hell?" but i guess i enjoyed the feeling so i let him hold me. So can anyone tell me if this is normal? I've know him for 2yrs and hes a jerk most of the time,hes rarely nice to me and i dont even like him in a romantic way much less a friendly way. Is this some way that my head or heart or something is trying to tell me that i love him? because i love someone else and its wierd how in my "dream world" im falling for someone i dont like in real life.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    The fact that he bugs you means he likes you and you know it on a subconscious level but your'e not interested

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  • superaspie
    12 years ago

    Im with a fictional character in my dreams right now.

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  • Madman9
    14 years ago

    This happens to me alot. I usually like the people in the dreams for like a week after I've had the dream tho. Even though most of them are people that I don't even think of before I have the dream.

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  • peaceoflove23
    14 years ago

    this is normal though i do believe are dreams are a reflection of our subconcious, u might not like his personality, but like him, maybe ur body senses something. are u attracted to him (his looks)?

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    • musicislife101
      14 years ago

      he is pretty good looking i guess but im not that attracted by his looks thanks for commenting though! :)

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