Is it normal to love a japanese man that lives in jp..and i in europe....

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hi all,
i don t know how many of you know how japanese man are...well i recently went to japan and stayed fro 6 months i met a japanese guy ( i am european) and they usually are sigh but this guy came to me and told me how much he liked me after seing me once at work..anyway he spent some wonderful times the best in my life ( i am 26 ) so i am not a kido but he really made me fell loved...and later his boss gave him a lot of new assigments and he had a deadline and he kinda forgotten about me..and he was telling me pls understand..he was sleeping at work he was practically living there....anyway i left him alone and before i return to europe he said that he loves me but that i don t understand japanese men..their work is more important than their gf/wife etc..and he said he will try to come to my country to work in couple of years..i thought he is joking but he discussed this with eveybody at work..anyway we are still in touch but he looks so good and he is so smart and i am always thinking mayve he has found a japanese girl..his english is not that good we don t understand eachother sometimes...and i am still so in love with him and i suffer a lot and do t know what to do..i can t even look at other guys..i am still dreaming that one day we wil be together..i can t recognize myself....

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I live on japan and Japanese tend to want to finish their work but they still do love their wife and girlfriend they probably feel that if they don't get the work done ether can't support the family anyways j think this is a cute story and keep in touch win him

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    • maya24
      13 years ago

      i am keeping in touch but i am wondering untill when it will last :(

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  • kanachan
    13 years ago

    Aww that's so sweet. Go for it! :) The language barrier is an inhibitor, yeah. But it's not like it's gonna be like that forever if you choose to umm, go for it. lol. - Don't worry about the distance and language barrier. It seems to me that he's serious about you because he's willing to come to your country to be with you. The best of luck xoxo

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    • maya24
      13 years ago

      thank you..i am not giving up yet even tough sometimes i want too ..but there is always something that makes me hang in there:)

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Ah mon ami...love like any good disease is not limited by national boundaries.

    Proceed but go into it with eyes open. Not understanding one another's language is a huge inhibitor.

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