Is it normal to lose interest in my boyfriend after realizing i'm bisexual?

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I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now and he is the first boyfriend I've had who I can say I am (was) in love with. A couple months ago I started to realize that I am bisexual. Since then I've been losing interest in him. I hardly want to hang out with him or have sex with him. But I have started fooling around with my best (female) friend. Will I ever regain interest in my boyfriend again? I don't want to lose him.

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  • GuessWho
    11 years ago

    Dating a guy - Straight
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    Fooling around with a girl - Bisexual
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    Losing interest in the guy - Gay

    I think you're past that point and on your way to becoming a lesbian.

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  • Infxmous
    11 years ago

    lol... Some people arent very helpful... Ever considered that maybe the fact that youre loosing attraction for him has nothing to do with the fact that youre bi? Maybe you just dont like him as a lover/companion and hes just not the one for you. If you fool around with someone else you will likely lose your remaining attraction. If you think you want to be with someone else, maybe you just nee to give him up because it really sounds like your feelings for him just faded with time ..

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    You might be a little more than bi. Sounds like you edging on the lesbian line.

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  • crazyladii
    11 years ago

    No its just a new experience. Maybe your bored with your bf and this new experience that happens to be a lesbian experience just got your mind going. So your pushing the old news aside (your bf) see if you can get a 3 sum out the deal

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  • la_la_la_la
    11 years ago

    Perhaps it's just *him* you don't want.
    If there's a woman you find you like, bring her name up, & if he says “she's hot” etc. jokingly tell him you think so as well. If he doesn't mind, you'll have another shared interest! Great!

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  • Lolada
    11 years ago

    You want your boyfriend AND don't want to be with him at the same time?

    Bitch,it ain't gonna suck itself.

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  • 1776
    11 years ago

    Stay friends, give him his freedom, go lick some pussy.

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    You sound more like a lesbian.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Attention seeker or gay and too dumb to know it for two whole years. Double lol

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