Is it normal to lose a boner after the initial getting naked with a new woman?

I'll have a boner as soon as my pants get torn off. But then after a minute I get really nervous with women and I lose my boner. And sometimes it takes a while to get it back up. Is it normal to get soft during intimacy with new women?

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Based on 21 votes (18 yes)
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  • Orphan

    Yeah, it's sometimes a little awkward with a new partner but no big deal. I just try to relax and just run my hands over her body till i get hard again

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  • DADNSCAL

    I went through a similar period when I was about 25, and went to a therapist who helped me get my confidence, and was able to perform through to orgasm.

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  • Skippy108

    I don't think it is fair that the man is responsible for a proper act of sex. The man must ALWAYS have an erection where as the woman has to do nothing except for maybe being a little wet and that can be handled with a squirt of KY jelly.
    I take a bunch of meds that have an effect on me getting, keeping and cumming with an erection. I might only cum once or twice a month and I have to do all kinds of strange things to my body to make it happen.
    I'm about to join a site called Tinder. I'm very nervous about performing for the first time. I still have some generic Viagra that sometimes works. I just don't want to blow it

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  • Grunewald

    I would hate it if a guy did that to me.

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  • GrooveThing

    You need to see a therapist about getting over those nerves.

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