Is it normal to look good in photos but ugly in real life?

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I am really insecure right now because I look super good in photos, compared to what I look like in person. I dont know why and it's annoying because when I meet someone online and we become friends and they wanna meet me in person, I ALWAYS MAKE UP EXCUSES NOT TO because I don't really feel comfident because Im sure they will think that I photoshop my photos and I DONT. And then guys chat me and flirt with me but then I always think "if you ever see me in person you'll regret wasting time on me." My mom, dad and sister rells me I look pretty in person too. So does my best friend (girl) and other relatives BUT HELLO THEY'RE MY RELATIVES of course they will say that!!! My friends don't really compliment me and some of my friends even make fun of me sometimes like saying my nosw is big and I got huge thighs :'( And when I walk around some places no one even gives me a second glance. I dont know what to do, I dont edit my photos I just want to look pretty in person too :'(

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  • FeralDefiance
    7 years ago

    If you look good in photos, and the people close to you say you look good in real life, then you look good. Strangers will rarely tell other strangers they're attractive.

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  • Bluberry
    7 years ago

    Just meet people in person. You'll save yourself of the dilemma

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  • breanna95
    7 years ago

    Thats how girls become facebook sluts, by only getting approval in online pictures. You are not less attractive in real life, trust me, its just that people tell you less often than online. Also you get a huge and broad audience online, while in real life its often only the same people that see you.

    Some guys I saw in a facebook group for selfies have no inhibitions whatsoever. Commenting the same compliment on every girls picture regardless of looks. Some guys are creeps, and women very rarely are like that. Value who tells you, that you look good, not how often you get told that you look good.
    And stop seeking attention from online strangers.

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    7 years ago

    i dont look good in either

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  • coltspm
    7 years ago

    yes its normal

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