Is it normal to like responsive girls?

I read an interesting article today about men surprisingly liking "responsive" girls. By responsive, what the study meant was guys would go for girls who show that they care, show interest and give affection as opposed to not showing interest right away. It's been debated about whether it is attractive for a girl to be vulnerable right away (depending how interested she is) or for a girl to hold herself together for a while before she lets go. By letting go, this means going out with him on dates, having sex, contacting him first every now and then instead of waiting for him to do it, treating him like paying for dinner or making dinner, etc. So according to the study and the article, guys do find it more attractive for the girl to be available as well instead of those who try to "play hard to get." Even if she is not playing that game, if she doesn't show any kind of interest right away, the guy will just move on to the next. So is this true? Seems like it.
And if you do like responsive girls, up to what point is time to give him space?

true i like girls who show interest fast, its simple and saves time 23
false I like a girl who makes me work for her 4
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  • I never understood why some people just assume guys like not being shown that a girl is interested in them and have to work for their affection...Who first said that? Us guys have a few things to say to that jackass.

    Anyway, yes, I prefer it when people show interest straight away. If they don't after a while then I move on and that door is closed. Why? Because if I have to put you up on a pedestal while I am being told "Mwahaha, you haven't done enough yet to interest me", then sorry but you're just a bitch and I lose all attraction for you.

    It's happened a few times when I was younger. I was interested, this person played the "hard to get mind game", I picked up on it then just dropped all that interest. Later on it turns out she got pissed off I wouldn't keep my interest up for her because if I did we would of had a shot...I shrugged and basically told them I'm not a dog chasing a bone nor is she the winner prize and I the runner up, I don't do things like that. Then she ws pissy with me for ages. I laughed. Lol.

    Guys are humans. We're not just things here to make women feel attractive, we want to feel attractive and loved just as much, and it seems men have to work for it more due to girls with these games. Now I'll cut them some slack, they may assume that it's what gets our interest and not know it pisses us off but still. We're humans. We want to seem attractive just as you do.

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  • pastor_of_muppets

    I don't go for girls who play hard to get at all. I don't have time for silly little games.

    I want to feel special too.. and needed.

    I don't get why it has become acceptable for guys to initiate everything and the girl gets all the "power".

    So, in my books, any girl who is brave enough to break out from that cliché is WORTH IT

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  • If a girl plays games or ignores me i immediately lose interest.

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    • reminiscent

      I love playing my pokemon games (╥_╥)
      lol

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      • reminiscent

        This was a lame joke I need to go to bed I think

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  • Freedom_

    I read that the mystery of attraction can make a person seem more appealing. Not knowing for sure if someone likes you makes you like them more... That's what they say anyways and if I remember correctly it was the same for both sexes.

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  • WhiteStallion

    How a girl unfolds her affections indicates to me how she deals with all men. If she gives so much upfront it seems like she wears her heart on her sleeve. Same goes for men. I think relationships should progress at an even pace between both individuals. Like when you just go on a single date and sex after is too soon.

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  • reminiscent

    Doesnt suprise me. Wouldnt guys like to feel wanted and attractive as well? I would think so.

    Mmm I love to make my man food. Actually I like to make my friends food too...If I know and like you I will attempt to feed you!

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    • Shackleford96

      You are the absolute best kind of friend in existence. There should be more like you. Seriously. :)

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      • reminiscent

        Lol ty ... I just like to bake ;)

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  • thegypsysailor

    Oh how wonderful it would be to have an unresponsive lover. One who just lays there, like a wet rag and responds to nothing. NOT!

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  • TheWeasel

    I like girls who are willing to spread open their buttcheeks and show me their asshole open wide while they push out a huge massive dump. I would love to eat a girls shit on an early spring morning.

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  • Nokiot9

    Girls that play hard to get piss me off. So many of them expect commitment and won't put out. Idk if it's just me, but there is NO way I commit myself to something I haven't tasted yet. It's very important to make sure you are sexually comparable before you even start to think about commitment. People look at a relationship as a way to get to know someone, and I am the opposite, I need to know you inside and out before I attach myself to your hip. It so sexy when a woman takes the upper hand. Not bogged completely down with inhibition and fear of judgement. I mean, a bit of resistance is needed. Just not 'playing hard to get'. I don't okay fuckin games. And don't waste my time with people that do

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    • slings_and_arrows

      They are playing hard to get coz they just want to be chased and don't want anything from you. If two people like eachother then it just happens naturally, or should. I don't know why you're all bothering with immature girls. If I truly want someone I just can't restrain myself. I can't imagine holding back when you're that into someone. Seriously, I would and have pounced on a man. I just wanna bite, tear, rip, sink my teeth in...To do otherwise would be so false. So these girls are false and immature and not that interested, I'd say.

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      • Nokiot9

        Are you serious? Lol I can tell the difference between someone that isn't interested and someone who is playing hard to get.

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  • Unimportant

    Yes, it's normal. A person needs to meet me half-way. It doesn't make sense, if a man does all the "wooing" and the woman merely accepts his approaches.

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  • shuggy-chan

    I like my women ruffied and unresponsive

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    • Cuntsiclestick

      It's funny, I like my men the same way.

      *hands you a drink*

      Here, have some soda.

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      • shuggy-chan

        Oky female bill cosby

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        • Cuntsiclestick

          Good boy. Drink it all up.

          *waits for you to pass out*

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          • shuggy-chan

            I feel so hyper now hyper hyper hyper

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            • Cuntsiclestick

              Wait, if you got the coffee soda, then what the heck did I just drink?

              *looks at cup*

              Aw shit!

              *passes out*

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    • Ellenna

      Ruffied?

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