Is it normal to like older women?

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I like women in their 30s and early 40s and I am only 21. I think the perfect age for women is 35, they have the perfect mix of experience and maturity with youth and energy. I had a meeting with a career counselor today and she was around 35 and super hot. She kept smiling at me, touching her hair, and she had the most beautiful soulful eyes. She was in a generally good mood and trying to make me laugh and I felt like she was really relaxed around me. However I checked her office and she had a picture of herself with a husband and a young daughter.

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
    7 years ago

    Attraction is such a heavy burden at times! Nothing wrong with being attracted to an older woman. If she's married with children and her own life happening without you. Now is your opportunity to prove your maturity and admire from an appropriate distance in a respectful manner.

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    • KingStephen
      7 years ago

      Very well said.

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      • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously
        7 years ago

        Thankyou Sir. Besotted young men and I have an understanding. If need be, enforced by notice the appropriate distance is 100 yards.

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  • KingStephen
    7 years ago

    First of all, slow down there young buckaroo. Of course she's nice to you. She's paid to be nice to you. And don't take her professional concern for your future as some kind of come on. You're smitten. Totally normal. But I hope that photo of her family brought you down to earth. Her job is helping to put food on the table for those people you saw in that family photo of hers lest you forget. And those soulful eyes are meant for that dude who shares her bed. Not for you. Sorry, but those are the facts of life. Doesn't mean you can't enjoy her company. Enjoy. But just keep it real dude. Keep it real.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      I was so nervous and awkward because of how stunning she was. I fumbled over my words and every time I stared at her face and eyes my heart stopped beating for a moment and it was as if the universe stood still for those precious seconds, seconds that I wish could last an eternity. When she looked down to write something or turned away to look at her computer I cherished being so close to her, I tried to memorize her everything, her very being from the clothes she was wearing to the details of her fingers, hands, arms, and how the light from the window behind her caressed her soft flowing hair.

      She was so utterly magnificent and flawless, a divine beauty, so effortlessly sensual and captivating, I held on to her every movement, glance, gesture, and syllable spoken from those perfect lips. I honestly can't imagine how it's physically possible for a woman to be more beautiful than her.

      I think that guy must be the luckiest son of a gun to come home to her every night. He better love her real good, like the goddess she is.

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      • Asstastics
        7 years ago

        Nicely written account of the helplessness felt by a love-struck heart. Know that she noticed this, and turned on the sexual charm just to enliven her boring afternoon. You were her toy, but she also may have just been showing you the characteristics of QUALITY female attention.

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        • KingStephen
          7 years ago

          Know that that turning on of her sexual charm came from a love smitten young man who goes into la la land every time he lays eyes on her. You and I were not there to see all of this turning on stuff, okay. I suspect a less dramatic version of her sexual mannerisms and what not took place. But to be young and love struck is a beautiful thing. Just wanted to get our young cyber friend's head out of the clouds for a minute of two. His head is just going to back in those clouds anyway. Doesn't matter what either one of say.

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  • Ass_gas
    7 years ago

    This post seems to have all the intelligence, good sense, insight, and adherence to the topic that is reminiscent of IIN five years ago. Very exemplary. Bravo.

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  • ace_flyer206
    7 years ago

    You're not alone, bud. I also find women between 30 - 40 more attractive than women in their 20's. My goal is to be in a relationship with an older woman.

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    So you like cougars?

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    • The_Creep_is_here
      7 years ago

      Hey Rosie. When you were 30 years old, you would have devoured this guy like a pop tart. I think you can give him advice that's better than the sum of everything else on this post.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      sure I like women who know how to have a good time. and despite adult responsibilities, experience, and maturity, they can still be young at heart. but a lot of women in their 30s and 40s are either married, divorced, or have emotional baggage. if they have children then that takes precedence in their life and if they don't have children then they're insecure about that too, etc.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Older women are less subtle and more honest about their attraction. Which means their signs of interest are more obvious so that even us clueless guys can pick up on.

    The ones who hit the wall gracefully can be nice and fun to mess around with. Beware the ones that don't.

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