Is it normal to like hearing people, but dislike interacting with people?

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I like to be around people and hear them talking to each other, since I think their conversations and opinions are interesting. However, I don't like talking to them myself. I have this conundrum where I think it would be fun to walk around in a populated area and people-watch, but I dread the possibility that someone might want to talk to me. I'm not a good conversationalist, so these exchanges are rarely exciting or comfortable for either person.

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    7 years ago

    People skills are just like any other skill. It comes with practice. Don't be afraid, most people don't mind when you're shy or awkward - That's cute. We just don't like talking to self absorbed douchebags. Plus you already have the most important quality for a good conversation: Listening.
    If you really are interested in what others have to say, I have no doubt you'd be an awesome person to talk to.

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  • Max2016
    7 years ago

    This is one of the most normal human traits. I've never felt comfortable having conversations with people too, except for my friends. But I make an outward appearance that I like talking to them and pretend that I am confident and smile. But on the inside I just feel so uncomfortable. I used to think it was just me but it happens with lots and lots of people as I have found out.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Wow... that is a conundrum.

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  • Mr.Beasty
    7 years ago

    I have same problem, people keep ask me that why Im not talking... you're introverted like me accept it ;)

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  • xfg19
    7 years ago

    No one is forcing you to interact. You could just stare at them like you have aspergers.

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    • Birdprince
      7 years ago

      *stares intensely at you*

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