Is it normal to like blonde women more than indian women despite being indian?

I'm an Indian guy born and brought up in the USA. I've noticed that I'm attracted to some white blonde women with great personalities, attitudes and beauty much more so than Indian women. Its not that I dont like Indian women, its just that the ones that are attractive are usually really stuck up and have horrible attitudes and demeanors. They also tend to be very judgmental.

I find blonde women to be much more feminine, independent, bubbly and attractive than most Indian women I have seen. Is this normal? What are the chances of me finding a beautiful blonde woman to marry and have a family with? Do any blonde women here have experiences of dating Indian men? And friends who have done the same? I'd appreciate your advice.

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  • changes123

    Right because the blondes that are attractive have beautiful personalities!

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  • scandinavia

    I am blonde scandinavian and only like south asian guys!

    For me it is the most natural thing in the world and depending on where you live such interracial relationships are very much common (I live in london where most of my friends are either mixed or in an interracial relationship/marriage)

    I would like to highlight though that it's the south asian men who approach me and not the other way around, which means clearly you are not the only Indian who has an attraction towards tall pale blonde women.

    I say go for it! Many white women are more than happy to embrace the Indian culture and customs, but you should also be prepared to let her! What I mean is that many indian men will date white women but end up marrying an Indian woman because of pressure from family or the belief that somehow a white woman just wont be good enough ( I have experienced this).... Luckily I know of interracial white/indian couples who have been married for decades and had a bunch of beautiful looking kids so barriers can be broken....

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    • indianguyusa

      Thanks for this message. I recently started talking to this amazing blonde scandinavian girl at my college library and we get along really well. I just felt this amazing chemistry whenever I was near her, so I asked her out and she felt the same way! We've been on a few dates and I think she is the one I can spend the rest of my life with. Just perfect in every way. My parents dont care that she isn't Indian because she is well educated and is going to Pharmacy school. She doesn't drink either. So its a great match! I hope you find a good Indian man- you seem like a really sincere person.

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      • scandinavia

        Thats great to hear! All the best to you both! :D And thank you!

        Where about is she from?

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        • indianguyusa

          You're welcome! Her parents are from Sweden, but she's been in the USA since the late 90's. She's just perfect :)

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  • Flaze

    Bruce Lee liked blonde white women

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  • MintyPumpkinCreepers

    Uhm "blonde women"... Okay? Fact: my mom is a blonde, yet she's from Central America. She also has a great personality and she's quite the social butterfly. Fact: my brothers girlfriend is a 'White' woman, a BRUNETTE, has an amazing personality, isn't afraid to say whats on her mind and was RAISED in INDIA! But, she did have lesbian mothers. Both my soon-to-be sister-in-law and my mother are genuinely beautiful women. I think you're being very stereotypical Because I know some grouchy ass blondes lol. Maybe because a lot of 'Indian' parents are used to the life over in their country, it tends to rub off on their children and because you were raised in the US, your lifestyle is different. Also it all depends where you live. I live in Los Angeles, California. Soooo many people! Soooo many more different women! So yeah, it's normal for you to be attracted to women with lovelier attitudes and bubbly personalities but it's not normal to think that "blondes" are the only ones that are like that. Being half Hawaiian and half Guatemalan, and being a city girl, I think that you need to open up your views.

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  • Itsqueenlily55

    Most blondes I know are vain and mean.

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  • charbijoy

    hi im charlotte im 16 and im from the UK im white and blond and have been in a relationship with an indian boy the same age as myself and has been for almost a year now. His parents don't know that we are together as he says they are very strict and he is too scared to tell them and I think it's the best for now. His parents want him to have an arranged marriage like theirs but he doesnt want that and he is prepared to do anything for us to stay together and marry. We just got engaged last week however no one knows about this and im learning so much about his culture and am even learning to speak Hindi. I regularly practice henna on myself and love to wear Sarees. I am also learning a lot on what happens during an indian wedding ect I love my life right now and can't wait for our future. Im about to start a sixth form for 2 years and after that planning to find a job and we will move into a flat together by 2017 and start saving for our wedding. Im so exited and I wish you the best for your future and If you wish to marry someone of a different race then don't let any one tell you otherwise. do what your heart wants you to do and if that is to marry a white blond girl then do it. I wish you happiness and joy :)

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  • missindependent#1

    sure its normal. good for you

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Sure people have preferences.

    don't beat yourself up about it.

    Just don't expect your blondie atomic bombshell to whip you up an awesome curry.

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    • scandinavia

      I am blonde and make curry from scratch....

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      • indianguyusa

        Haha that's awesome! Chicken curry, Paneer Butter Masala and Naan please! ;p

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Awesome i stand corrected.

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  • RougeTheBat

    What,indian women can't have blonde hair?!

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