Is it normal to like anal only in fantasy?

I only like anal sex in fantasy.
In reality it doesn't look as appealing to me and it smells a little...
One of my gay friends even discribed their first experience with it, told me there was some fecal matter on the condom, really grossed me out.
And my girl friend has asked for it once but I declined politely. Then she tried to demonstrate with a dildo but damn it smelled bad, even when she douche her anus. Only in drawn fantasy like erotic stories, pictures or animation, I don't mind it. But even in real porn it looks gross to me.
Maybe I haven't seen an attractive anus like the ones I see sometimes in fantasy, but I still can't get over that there's traces of feces somewhere in there...

I haven't met someone who shares the same interests with me, only know a few who don't like it at all, whether it's in fantasy or real.

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  • Most everything related to sex is better in fantasy. I have excellent imagination.

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    • That is true in fantasy it looks better to me(not including porn), because they're not real just ideal. But feels better in reality to me as well.

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  • There’s nothing appealing about anal

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    • Yeah I don't get the obsession with it...Even friends tried to challenge me to find me hot anal porn.
      None got me off, only an erotic art did but that's all.

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  • Anal is awesome! Even a little ATM is a huge turn on!

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    • What do you like about it?
      And it doesn't give off an aftersmell?
      And with ATM arn't you worried about getting fecal matter in you mouth? Unless your into scat.

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      • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

        If she does an enema and takes gas pills and doesnt eat brocolli she should be good. My wifes ass never stinks when we do it.

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  • curious-bunny

    Yea it can happen, I go d using a laxative then enema helps alot, worried about smell use incense oils or just wash first.

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    • So everytime you do anal you gotta do those three steps? Wow thats alot of preparation. Girlfriend did enema and sented lube, still smelled a little like feces mixed with lube...
      I'll stick to vaginal sex no preparation when I do it that way with her, and makes its own natural lubricant.
      Anal still looks appealing in fantasy tho, but pass on reality.

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      • curious-bunny

        No, it depends on what I'm doing haha, I almost never have feces enter the play. I only do that when it mattera

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        • Oh sorry I meant, everytime you want to do anal. And alright.

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          • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth

            Your girl probably had gas when yall did it. You have to time it right. Anal is the best tho.

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            • Don't think she farted, maybe it does but just makes what ever touches it smell bad and traces of fecal matter...I can't get over that.

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  • I have tried it but it is not for me. Yes I have used it in fantasies.

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    • What do you mean by used it in fantasies? You made art like drawing or writing about it?

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    You're normal. Not every guy is into anal.

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    • Yeah but are those same guys into the fantasy type too?

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        Depends on the person. Some are, some aren't. Probably unrelated, but I play with my boyfriend's ass sometimes and I learned that a person can douche or enema all they want, but in the end, there's always going to be some tiny trace of shit/booty juice/booty smell. I just ignore those things. Porn always tends to make sex look overly perfect and appealing, then when we actually try those sex acts we realize the truth. XD

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        • Haha yeah guess you have a stronger stomach than me.
          Yeah weird thing is I find porn unappealing as well, but some amateur porn is actually okay depending on the type, such as Amateur bj prefer them over professional, they look more enjoyable and messy because of the inexperience, compared to the set up one with the extreme amount of fake moans.
          But fantasy tops them all for me.

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