Is it normal to like anal only in fantasy?
I only like anal sex in fantasy.
In reality it doesn't look as appealing to me and it smells a little...
One of my gay friends even discribed their first experience with it, told me there was some fecal matter on the condom, really grossed me out.
And my girl friend has asked for it once but I declined politely. Then she tried to demonstrate with a dildo but damn it smelled bad, even when she douche her anus. Only in drawn fantasy like erotic stories, pictures or animation, I don't mind it. But even in real porn it looks gross to me.
Maybe I haven't seen an attractive anus like the ones I see sometimes in fantasy, but I still can't get over that there's traces of feces somewhere in there...
I haven't met someone who shares the same interests with me, only know a few who don't like it at all, whether it's in fantasy or real.