Is it normal to like a guy, want a guy, then when i have him, feel turned off?

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Every time I'm into a guy, I really want him both sexually and emotionally. But when I actually have him, the thought of actually being sexual with him disturbs the hell out of me. I know it sounds immature, but there's something about his junk that is really off putting. It's the same when I think about him going down on me, what if he thinks it's disgusting down below? I feel like I could never be serious when doing it because I feel either embarrassed or disturbed, or that he will judge me. It’s not as like I haven’t been sexual with a guy before, just within the last few years every time I get close to a guy emotionally, I never pursue it because I can’t imagine doing it with them.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    sounds like you may be at odds with yourself...
    perhaps even scared to actually go through with a relationship?

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    • GOOPY678
      11 years ago

      Hit the nail on the head. Not sure how to not feel this way.

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  • TechnoDoctor
    11 years ago

    Now I understand where all the bitches come from :(

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    • GOOPY678
      11 years ago

      I think you read into it too much. It's more about me feeling embarrassed and thinking he'll judge me. Wouldn't it be worse if I just used him for sex? It's about me feeling uncomfortable. I don't know how to feel comfortable. I want to feel likt it's normal.

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  • gncp
    11 years ago

    u r a one spoiled brat...
    liking what u dont have and wasting what you have..

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    • GOOPY678
      11 years ago

      I'm not sure how that makes me spoilt? I think you used the wrong term. Re-read what I said. I feel uncomfortable and think they'll judge me or something. Like I said below, I want to feel normal about it, I don't want to feel embarrassed or self-concious or disturbed my sex.

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      • gncp
        11 years ago

        "IIN To like a guy, want a guy, then when I have him, feel turned off?"--> this explains your question...

        sorry bout my comment but thats my own special reaction to what you ask...

        and about the "turn off thing"... WHY!??

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