Is it normal to like a girl when i have a boyfriend?

I'm a girl with a boyfriend but there is this girl that I think I like. It's confusing me, like I don't want to brake up with him and even if I did he's really sensitive. I think I may be bisexual but I just don't know. This has been bugging me for a month or 2. Please help

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  • hungDaddy

    Okay sis, so that's super normal but please don't act on it (i.e. mentioning to your partner that you're interested in a SPECIFIC girl). I've seen a lot of people who are finding their sexuality react like this to current partners and it almost never went well.

    Instead, just tell him that you are bisexual. If you do not feel completely bi at the moment, take some time to yourself to think about it. Sexuality is VERY scary to find out, but you do have resources. Try queer groups on Facebook as a starter.

    Lastly, if you do decide to talk to your boyfriend about this and he doesn't accept you, its time for him to go. Put yourself first, always.

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    • Wow thanks I would've never thought about that

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      • hungDaddy

        Unsure if sarcasm but hopefully I could help.

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        • It's not sarcasm I'm very thankful

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          • hungDaddy

            Happy to hear it. Good luck chief.

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  • AceWhitehouse

    okay i have undoubtedly been in this exact situation when i was probably around 15? i had a boyfriend for about a year and a half.. so, pretty serious? it was highschool, so looking back at it now it wasnt serious but to me then, it was. i broke up with my boyfriend to date this girl that i was convinced i was in love with. i guess you could say i tested out the waters and i was really happy. my ex boyfriend had found out and he was extremely furious. unfortunately, my girlfriend at that time told me that she thought she was just a "phase" to me because she was the first girl i had ever dated.. it tore me apart but looking back at it, i will never feel the way i did with her with any other girl.. it wasnt the gender that was the attraction.. it was her soul, her personality, her being. so just do what feels right to you. dont look at it as a gender difference. look at them for who they are and how they make you feel. because i'll tell you, she is the only girl who will ever have my heart.. not because im attracted to her anatomy, but because of who she is.

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    • I've never thought of that. Thanks you've been a big help

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  • LornaMae

    There's nothing abnormal about it! All I'd look into is the fact that you're in, seemingly, a committed relationship. Talk to him first and take it from there... :)

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    • But I don't know how to cause what if he reacts wrongly. And he might think I'll leave him and I just don't want that. This is all so scary to me.

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      • LornaMae

        Mm... they do sometimes "react wrongly", they do, I've seen it. But if he does leave you then he was supposed to have been gone from your life!

        Try something together, maybe? Although if it were me in your shoes I'd definitely not want a plus 1 during that experiment!

        Sorry, I don't seem to have any good advice whatsoever!! :(

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        • It's ok you've helped with what you can and you're right

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