Is it normal to like a bi girl who already has a boyfriend and i am a girl?

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Ugh I just typed a whole long thing but then it erased it! Ok so: I think I am in love with one of my good GIRL friends. But here's the catch: we both go to different schools and she already has a boyfriend which she doesn't seem to like very much!! If we dated, that would make us a lesbian couple and I don't know what my friends would think of that. So anyway, I am in love with her but we don't see eachother that often because we go to different schools! I already told her that I liked her which I probably shouldn't have done because that will make her feel like she should break up with her boyfriend. Either that, or I feel weird liking her when she has a boyfriend. Please help! is it normal for me to like one of my girl friends who already has a boyfriend?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    Love doesn't know politics or family/friend relations. If you are in love with your friend, tell her. If she leaves her boyfriend for you then so be it. She wouldn't leave him if she was happier with him then she thinks she'd be with you.

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    • kyleegirl
      11 years ago

      Thanks for the advice. Some of the things I said in the other post that got deleted were:
      1. She used to "like" me a couple of years ago.
      2. My best friend thinks I don't like her very much, but I do!!!!! The girl I have a crush on was becoming close with my best friend which pissed me off so I decided I didn't like her. But I do now!!!
      I should also mention my parents get upset when I talk to her on the phone a lot but she doesn't have an email, facebook, or phone so what other option do I have. Omg my life is so confusing.....

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  • Hollyjj
    11 years ago

    It's never ok to be lesbian

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  • brownchickenbrowncow
    11 years ago

    Communication is key lol
    Corny but true

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  • squirrelgirl
    11 years ago

    I have been in the same situation as you, so I understand how you feel.

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  • kyleegirl
    11 years ago

    Please give advice!! I need as much as I can get....

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