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Is it okay to tell my BF that he is the first one to have sex with and that I have not ever touched another guy "I had anal only actually"? I told him also that I haven't been in any relationship before while I've been with two guys for around 3 months each.
Lying is a two-way street, and not good for any relationship. Starts off with "just a little one", and soon grows to, well, I won't tell him/her and it will be ok. Then, it's hard to remember what you said was true or not.
Just be honest and avoid a lot of problems.
Unfortunately it's not abnormal to lie about past relationships, but that doesn't make it anymore right or any less fucked up to lie like that. Stop being a pussy and tell your boyfriend the truth, relationships need trust to be able to work and you're not allowing your boyfriend that trust.
Lying isn't cool, particularly if the relationship is serious or may be heading that way.
However, it also isn't cool for guys to be nosy about a woman's sexual history. That was then, this is now.
If he's being really persistent with the interrogation, I think you need to ask what that's about. Is he looking for someone who's "pure"? Is he a religious nut? Is he afraid he's crap in bed and you'll know it? Does he feel the need to prove something to himself or someone else?
If you have to lie to your partner you are not basing your relationship out of trust. Why would you want an untrusting relationship?