Is it normal to let a gay guy suck your dick even though you are straight?

Here the thing: You are 100% straight. You have a gf, but she refuses to suck your dick.

Here's another thing: There is a gay guy who knows you are straight. So, he doesn't expect you to love him or anything.

And then another thing: That guy loves sucking dicks - especially your dick! He asks you to let him suck you many times and wants nothing in return. He just loves sucking you.

You are 100% straight, remember? Will you let him suck your dick. He's good at it and your gf refuses to give you the pleasure. It sounds like a win-win situation...

What do you say? Is it normal to let him suck you?

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Comments ( 55 )
  • Cuntsiclestick

    They can't be completely straight if they're using their girlfriends lack of dick sucking as an excuse to cheat with a dude. If they are straight, that just makes them a desperate, pathetic individual.

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    • JojoThomas

      i don't think its gay i think its normal (^:

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  • flyingnostalgia

    No, that makes you gay!...but i think you already know that without me pointing it out for you!

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    • omghahahawasbanned

      How is it gay if the straight guy has no affection towards men?

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      • flyingnostalgia

        not gay at all....i mean its just going to a man whore right? ;)
        and by the way gay guys for the most like straight guys is what i have heard...so even if the straight guy dont the gay guy does.

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        • omghahahawasbanned

          If a gay guy loves you, that doesn't make you gay. In this case, the straight guy just wants his dick sucked. He has no love for the gay guy. So how does that make him gay, I wonder.

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          • flyingnostalgia

            cus a guy is sucking his dick. many gay guys do it for the sex and dont like the other guy.

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            • JM13087

              I concur , had he gotten his private pleasured by a female it would not be gay, but if you just want your privates pleasured and you get it done by a member of the same gender; that behavior is not straight behavior hence it is gay. feelings not important.

              sleeping with a woman does not mean that a gay man is straight, but if a straight man sleeps with another man(even for pleasure) he's no longer straight i.e. he's gay.

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        • ilioaikane

          for crying out loud.... he's getting his dick sucked.. not falling in love. it's just a mouth on his cock... if he was blindfolded... would he know the difference?? Sex is sex... nothing more....

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  • TallSteve1

    Okay- so my girlfriend tried sucking me off a couple times the first time she gagged, the next time she almost threw up. Then she told me she just couldn't do it and had even tried sucking off a couple boyfriends before with the same results. I had never been sucked off before at that time- I was 19 and in college. So one night I'm telling my roommate about the fact that my girlfriend couldn't and wouldn't suck cock. We're talking about it, each lying in bed before we went to sleep and he goes silent for about five minutes -I figured he was going to sleep- when suddenly he says "I'll suck you off if you want." I replied "you're kidding, right?" I mean this dude was a jock, had a girlfriend and as far as I knew totally straight. He answers "no, I'm not kidding." I had done the I'll show you mine if you show me yours thing with a couple of buddies when I was like 13, but had never considered any type of gay sex. I thought about it, thinking maybe if I just shut my eyes and pretend he's my girlfriend it will be okay. So I said yes. Damn- it felt amazing. I kept my eyes closed the entire time, thinking about my girlfriend. I was so nervous it took me like five minutes to get hard. He finished me off in about ten minutes and even let me cum in his mouth. The next morning I felt like shit - I couldn't even let him look me in the eye. One week later, we're just getting ready for bed and he asked me again if I wanted my cock sucked. This time I kept my eyes open and this time as he's going at it he pulled down his shorts and started wanking off while he was sucking- and he took my balls in his mouth too. It ended up turning into a weekly thing every Sunday night before we hit the sack. He never asked me to suck him off once, but each time he would wank off while doing it. That went on two more years. So I ended up going two and a half years having never been sucked off by a girl, just by my roommate. Our last night rooming together before graduation and I told him "Fuck it, dude, let's just go all-out." Off came our clothes and I climbed into bed with him. We made out for about a half hour, kissing each other and everything then went down on each other 69. That was the first and last time I sucked cock, but since then I have let a couple guys suck me off in the showers at the gym I go to.

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  • Loratio24

    That doesn't make you a homosexual or a heterosexual. You are then considered trysexual until you have determined that you want this to be a normal part of who you are. In which that would make you bisexual... You find yourself comfortable having sex with either gender and oral sex is still sex. No shame in that as long as your girlfriend is okay with it.

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  • VirgilManly

    Anyone else read that as "He asks you to let him suck you many times and wants nothing in rectum."?

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  • Holzman_67

    you've got to be at least bi curious to be in a sexual encounter with the same gender

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  • randypete

    a mouth is a mouth

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    • JM13087

      That's only true if you're Bisexual, not strictly gay or a pansexual.

      not true for strict heterosexuals.

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  • Faceless

    hahahahaha.

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  • nopem8

    Cheating is a bit shite.

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  • Melora

    Consenting sex between adults is normal.
    But you are not hetro. You are at least a bit bisexual.

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  • Legion

    First, a 100% straight man wouldn't even entertain that idea.

    Personally, I would have to say no, if I was in a relationship, I would never go have sex with someone else, that s cheating. Now, if I had permission, and she wanted me to, that's different.

    If I wasn't seeing anyone however, I probably would.

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  • bfus

    Behavior and orientation are not the same thing

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  • Riddler

    No and I dont think you qualify as straight but that is cool, being gay is okay

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  • JD777

    Sounds like you need a new girlfriend, instead. I've dated many women over the years and haven't encountered one who didn't enjoy doing oral.

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  • sheven

    Either way, still pretty much cheating
    Probably should tell your gf about this.

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    • kelili

      Why should he tell?

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  • reallyalthea

    So I'm thinking I have a bf , but I don't suck his dick . So I'm guessing this is what he's thinking in his mind or want to do .. My mind is filled ..

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    • gloryholeflasher

      @reallyalthea
      Does your boyfriend go down on YOU when you have sex together?

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      • reallyalthea

        If So , Why Do You Want To Know .. :/

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    • omghahahawasbanned

      Yep, pretty much it, I fear.

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      • reallyalthea

        Yeah I know . I hope this NEVER happen ?? I mean NEVER !!

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  • Short4Words

    I feel like I have fucking amnesia when I read shit like this

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    • omghahahawasbanned

      omg hahaha! Why?

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  • VinnyB

    Well in order for the scenario to even exist, for the gay man to know he loves sucking that particular guys dick, and for the straight guy to think he's great at it, they would had to have done it already. So none of those things could have been reasons for doing it in the first place.

    That being said, I don't think he has to be sexually attracted to a guy to enjoy a blowjob, anymore than he would need to be sexually attracted to himself or his hand to enjoy masturbation. So no, it does not make him gay. But I wouldn't call it a win win, I would call it cheating on his girlfriend. Unless of course she hates doing it so much that she has blessed the idea of the gay guy "picking up the slack". But that is rarely the case in these scenarios.

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    • JM13087

      As a straight guy I must disagree, sleeping with another guy, even due to lack of options does not constitute straight behavior, as such any guy who has sex with any other guy for any reason whatsoever has partaken in gay behavior(in a straight guy's book.)

      Now if this fellow were to claim that he's now straight tomorrow, then I cannot argue with him on that, but before that day, as long as that fellow does such things he's considered to be gay. in fact he'd be considered to have been gay for that part of his life, even if he were to marry a woman sometime in the future.

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      • VinnyB

        I think we have a difference of opinion as to what constitutes sexuality. I would agree that the "act" is a homosexual act. But I don't think engaging in a homosexual act automatically makes you homosexual, even in the moment, any more than I believe engaging in a Heterosexual act makes you straight.

        To me, sexuality is about sexual attraction, not about having sex. Virgins can, and normally do, have a sexuality. I would guess that you considered yourself straight, even before you had sex. Having sex for the first time with a girl didn't "make you straight". Same for me, I knew that I was gay long before I had sex with a man. Having sex with a man didn't "make me gay". I am sexually attracted to men, not to women, that is what makes me gay

        Now, I could go out tonight meet a random girl, and have sex with her. I am more than capable of thinking of something else to get the motor running. But I would not be sexually attracted to her. For me, the experience would be little more than masturbation with the girl as a sex toy. Even if I did this, I would still have been gay before, I would be gay during, and I would be gay after, because I would still be attracted to men, not women.

        It is the same thing here. If the guy is straight, and sexually attracted to women, not men, using someone's mouth as a masturbatory aid would not make him gay. He would be the same straight person before during and after.

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        • JM13087

          I agree, the act itself does not define a person's sexuality. But in order willfully to permit/participate in a homosexual act, you can no longer define your self as being 100% straight, at least not for that period in time that you thought it was okay.

          and I apologize in advance for using the following scenario , I know it has no correlation, but say a man was sexually frustrated and resorted to use a rubber duck to relieve himself that man would be a rubberduckyphile at least for that duration of time that he consented to be pleasured by a rubber duck even if it had all the parts needed, the parts were attached to a rubber duck.

          as a straight male you would Not consent to the askers behavior under any circumstance.

          It is not the fact that he did the act with another man, but the fact that he consented to do it that makes him gay/not straight.

          I am unsure of your sexuality and It's none of my business, but as a straight fellow, I would not consent to the asker's behavior even if we were the only living things on earth. no more than I would do it with a duck.

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          • VinnyB

            Well if you read my response you would know my sexuality. I said right in my post...

            "To me, sexuality is about sexual attraction, not about having sex. Virgins can, and normally do, have a sexuality. I would guess that you considered yourself straight, even before you had sex. Having sex for the first time with a girl didn't "make you straight". Same for me, I knew that I was gay long before I had sex with a man. Having sex with a man didn't "make me gay". I am sexually attracted to men, not to women, that is what makes me gay

            Now, I could go out tonight meet a random girl, and have sex with her. I am more than capable of thinking of something else to get the motor running. But I would not be sexually attracted to her. For me, the experience would be little more than masturbation with the girl as a sex toy. Even if I did this, I would still have been gay before, I would be gay during, and I would be gay after, because I would still be attracted to men, not women."

            There is no way you will convince me that using as girl as a form of masturbation makes me straight. I know very well that I am not straight.

            Also your rubber duck scenario doesn't work for me. People do use rubber objects to get off. Flesh lights and pocket pussies are popular sex toys. If a man masturbates with a flesh light it does not make him a "fleshlightaphile".

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            • JM13087

              I'm sorry didn't mean to offend, in my fictional scenario think of the rubber duck as another gender(it's only a stand in due to lack of appropriate scenarios.)

              I get your point and agree with you, having sex with a man would not make you gay, but wanting to do it ,i.e. consenting to do it would. right ?

              I can not claim if the same is true for a gay man sleeping with a woman(would that make him straight or not) but for a straight man to do it, he would no longer be straight for wanting to sleep with a man. until he decided/realized that he only wanted to sleep with women.

              our wordings may be different, but I think we're both saying pretty much the same thing

              =]

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  • gloryholeflasher

    I probably would, even tho I normally prefer anonymous sex in situations where the other party doesn't know me. Maybe I would suggest we hook up in a gloryhole booth, or buddy booth at the adult book store, and in that environment I'm sure he'd be surprised to learn I also enjoy sucking cock!

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    • Loratio24

      Huh, sound like fun... Huh what do they have glory holes.

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  • sandraasiilva

    Sexualitty is not always black and white.
    Some straight guys would say "ewww, hell no!", but not all straight people are 100% on the straight side. Some people are more flexible than the others, even if they aren't attracted to the same sex, they can be more able to turn out bi.

    For example: I'm straight. I never felt anything (sexually or emotionally) towards a girl. But I don't find kissing a girl disgusting. So maybe I'm only 90% straight. I don't consider myself bi because even if I don't find it disgusting I don't find it attractive either.

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    That does not make you gay in my opinion.
    I do believe everyone is a bit gay somewere and most do have a gay experience in life.
    If you need to try that do it but don't hurt anyone.

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    • JM13087

      speak for yourself not on behalf of others.

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      • Mr-Myrtos

        That's what psychiatrists and psychologists say, everyone is a bit gay.Its not me saying it.Just google and you see what medical opinion say about it.
        If you don't fit don't get scared.

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        • JM13087

          well that's no comfort at all.

          =|

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          • Loratio24

            Why are you worried? What would be the worst thing to happen. In theory; you try having sex, any kind of sex, with the same gender. You don't like it then that's it you don't want it and so there you go no harm done... Unless you get sick. Then that's shitty!

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  • kelili

    I do not think that this makes you gay.

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