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Is it normal I lead guys on, pretending I am interested in sex, use them for favors, eventhough I have a boyfriend? When they realize I won't have sex with them, they leave.
I don't understand why they don't just want to be friends with me and always leave when they realize I won't have sex with them.
If you're using people for favors that is a shitty, selfish, manipulative and ugly way to be. No one in their right mind wants to be friends with a user!
I think you are doing those guys a favor.
You are giving them lessons about why one needs to watch out for and avoid manipulators, prick teasers, dinner whores, and the like.
But as far as why they leave when they realize you are not planning sex - That was their goal in the first place, to get laid. There is no point in hanging around if someone cannot or will not deliver the goods.
Well if they had agreed to be friends with me in the first place, I wouldn't have had to manipulate them.
It's normal for some manipulative bitches, but pretty shitty behavior for either sex.
If you don't treat them as friends in the first place how can they reciprocate?