Is it normal to know someone isn't my type but still have a crush on them?

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Recently I've found myself liking girls that aren't really my type (I'm a lesbian by the way) even if I know they like girls too. I can point out everything that would make them a bad match for me but still have feelings for them. Does this happen a lot to you guys? And do you know how to control your feelings? I'm starting to get tired of this :/
Im also 18 if that matters

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    I am not a lesbian, but I do think that sexual attraction is not always limited to a certain type. Even though there might be a specific kind of person (appearance and/or character) that you are usually attracted to, I think it's normal to kind of wonder about how it would be to get together with someone completely different.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    Yes it's totally normally.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    Sometimes, just because someone isn't "your type" doesn't mean you aren't going to want them.

    Sometimes you meet someone whom you have great chemistry with, and for reasons you weren't expecting.

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