Is it normal to ignore the safe word?

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How would you handle a situation where your partner ignored your safe word/signal during sex.

I am trying to understand where I went wrong and how I can address the situation better to prevent further physical harm.

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  • Lestat565
    5 years ago

    I’d tell them that they can’t ignore the safe word. Or I’d find another partner. Someone who takes your safety seriously.

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    • IrishPotato
      5 years ago

      I don't know why you're downvoted .

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      • Lestat565
        5 years ago

        Yeah I wasn’t even being a dick this time lol

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        • IrishPotato
          5 years ago

          Yay upvoted!

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    5 years ago

    If you ignore the safe word then it's rape.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      But is it still rape if we were not having sex?

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      • JellyBeanBandit
        5 years ago

        Well then it's assault.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          T.T

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  • lordofopinions
    4 years ago

    The safe word is there for a reason. If the person has had enough of the scene and wants you to quit then you must immediately do so. If you don't the person will not trust you completely again.

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  • SwickDinging
    5 years ago

    Not ok at all. Don't do stuff like that with him again

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Safe words are there for a reason.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Sounds hot

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  • trexagireve
    5 years ago

    It's hard to stop a dripping pussy.. When it is wet it doesn't listen

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  • TheBlindInquisitor
    5 years ago

    Damn if I meet a women who kept going I'd feel very confused really about it.

    On one end I'd be freaking pissed as well as being scared as hell to being very aroused at the same time.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      first I was a little aroused, but I panicked a bit and ended up with a dislocated shoulder and a trip to the ER...

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      • TheBlindInquisitor
        5 years ago

        Damn. was it a man or woman that did that to you?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Woman :/ felt like complete garbage haveing to tell the doctors multiple times that my wife and I are into bdsm and the bruises and shoulder were not infact due to abuse

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  • WeirdGuyFromTheSouth
    5 years ago

    It does sound kind of hot though. He got carried away it seems.

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