Is it normal to hit a woman if she is attacking you?

I know this is a controversial topic and let me first say I am NOT an advocate of hitting women in any situation and no matter what it isnt okay to draw blood or close your fists. But on the two occasions I have it was because I was having my face clawed or a knife pulled on me. Both times I open handed em on the side of the head. I don't think I could ever beat a woman, and I feel awful for having to defend myself... I just think if you have the balls to come screaming at me like a banahee naked with a paring knife in hand swinging all over, you better have the balls to take a hit. It brothers me that women seem to get a get out ta jail free card because they think no matter what they do a 'good guy' won't strike them and ifthey do they instantly bbecome worse than hitler no matter what the provoking circumstances are.

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  • Dantevus

    This isn't a gender thing. The sole question is how much force you use compared to the other persons threat level. Ray Rice, for instance, had no threat and used far too much force. Making it a gender issue would be sexist though. Many women would be able to kick my ass and if Nicole Bass attacked me she'd be the same as Ray Rice.

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    • RainbowFlash

      Well said.

      I am a female and if someone came at me and tried to hit me, I would restrain them. I would exercise restraint, pun intended! hehe

      This has happened, my ex girlfriend tried to strike me, I grabbed both of her wrists and held her in place. I didn't have to hit her and she didn't pose a threat to me. At worst, she would have given me a black eye. I could have seriously injured her if I struck her back as I am trained to react in a certain way.

      If they came at me and actually posed a threat, male or female, they'd be on the ground in seconds.

      Unfortunately, this has happened too. Some guy tried to force me onto the ground, so I put him on a car hood and strangled him until he posed no more threat. No I didn't kill him but I was damn close.

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  • Crusades_

    You have the right to defend yourself no matter who attacks you. There should be no controversy whatsoever! If a man attacks me i defend myself. If a woman attacks me i defend myself. Simple as that. If someone is a threat to your safety and integrity, attacking you with a dangerous weapon, you have a right to take measures of self defense even if that means killing your attacker. And what they have between their legs shouldn't be a criteria. PERIOD

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  • anti-hero

    Only as a last resort if your life is in danger and you can't leave.

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  • Aliceee93

    In self defence yes, but why was she attacking you with a knife in the first place? If shes crazy just leave.

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  • kelili

    It depends. If she seems stronger than you, then you should try to defend yourself. Run away if she's weaker. Anyway society will not forgive you for hitting a woman even if she's the one who attacked. If unfair but that's the way it is.

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  • Comment to apease the PC BS in this community:
    Oh my God! Yes! It's just wrong! Women are weaker, that means the most you should do is hold them tightly! That'll show them and teach them never to do it to somebody ever again! If you hit a woman that is hitting you, then you are scum!

    My actual feelings towards it:
    Yes, there are plenty of reasons why you should hit a woman, they're the same ones on why you would hit a man. If you're trying to tell that you aren't allowed to use your strength on those wishing to do you harm due to them being weaker then what you are doing is taking away the male strength and allowing the female's to be used, ergo women end up with the only usable strength.

    "I feel awful for having to defend myself".
    Our fuckin' society, man...I swear. Men actually feel guilty for hitting a woman that's hitting them...Ugh.

    So I have more of a suggestion. Treat women hitting men the same as the reverse, ergo they get the same charges or allow men to hit them back so they learn to keep their hands to themselves that way, because society as it stands is saying "Go ahead, hit him, all he can do is hold you tightly to make you stop, I know right? Sooooooo scary".

    Anyone that thinks a woman being hit in a situation you think it's acceptable to hit a man for doing the same, is quite frankly, a sexist to both genders.
    You are sexist to men because you support their abuse by not allowing them to show why they should not be hit and you are sexist to women by treating them like children that aren't responsible for their actions.

    The great damn irony of the "You can't hit a girl!" mentality is that you are basically calling women children.

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  • Poes

    I say you time your attack and wait until the bitch is striking distance, you then grab hold of both of her hands, pull her towards you and headbutt the shit out of her!when she goes down to the ground (and she will) give her a good kick to vagina!

    That should make the bitch think twice before she ever attacks another defenseless man again!

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  • bow2me

    dont hit her back, just stick ur finger in ur ass and shove it in her nose and say "sniff my fumes, bitch!"

    if u cant do that, then yeah just beat the shit out of her so the bitch will learn.

    knock her our then take a dump on her face.

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  • WeirdMe

    if a girl hits me, then i was really bad to her. but when she hits me without any reason then i will destroy her with words.

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  • Avant-Garde

    As a sentient life form you retain ever right to defend yourself if someone attacks you.

    Look at how animals react when they are being threatened. They give of warning signs to the attacker. Sometimes they'll run. Other times, they will attack in self defender.

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  • nabilone

    My first reaction would have been to shove her, and then slap her, and if it was a knife I would have ran. But punching is ok when she comes at you again after you've already slapped her and she's still clawing at you.

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  • Nokiot9

    Like... I've totally had women smack me in the face and crap when I've asked for it and I'm never one to even think of smacking them back. Its the repeatedly smacking and hitting I. The face with claws or a weapon that gets me. Especially when its a really extreme reaction to an easily talked about situation.

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  • DarQness

    if someone is coming at you all crazy with a weapon, the whole idea is to use more force. the idea would be to knock someone out, woman or no. a knife is a life threatening weapon. a punch is just a little bump on the head, let the person sleep it off.

    i never had to hit a woman my whole life.

    of course, i never had a woman pick up a knife on me, and start swinging and running at me with it. and i never been clawed at either. in a relationship its always wise to say, yes dear.

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  • Riddler

    Hell yes it is. However if you somehow provoked the attack than you probably deserved it. If a crazy female decides to come up and stab you out of the blue by all means punch her out. However if its something like playful pushing I do not see the need for physical violence. Knocking her out cold is going to be a lot less harm than either one of you getting pointed with a sharp object.

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  • howaminotmyself

    Oh yay. Another obscure reality of how women behave.

    If a woman is attacking you with a knife she probably has the balls to take a punch. And she has probably already taken a few punches in her life time.

    The question is, what do you do to provoke women into attacking you with paring knives?

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      mebbe he burned the roast

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  • Parky_Parker

    If you feel like your life is in danger, do what you gotta do to survive. Otherwise, nobody should be putting their hands on anyone, regardless of gender.

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  • RoseIsabella

    How and where did you find theses awful harpies?

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    • Trust me when I tell you that women are far more likely to hit someone, atleast from my experience moving around. I have seen women kick, slap, punch men for nothing, and the second they hit her back people jump in to say it is unacceptable.

      I got slapped once by a girl (she was a friend) because we fell out over something (can't remember what), and it fuckin' hurt (Sh'yeah, I know, men feel pain, too, who would of thought? Lol). Then all the other times I've seen girls hit people and get away with it. I even once was one of these manginas that stood up for a woman when she initiated the abuse (I was young). One of the biggest regrets I have.

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      • iEatZombies_

        Of all the unjust treatment between sexes, I hate the hypocrisy of violent women.
        Any woman who gives a shit about the guy they're with would never want to hurt them like that. Well, except when, ya know... -but anyways, they would protect who they love specifically from such cunts.

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        • I agree! :)

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        • iEatZombies_

          Gosh, that was vulgar.. =*

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      • RoseIsabella

        I can probably count the number of people I've struck on one hand, whereas my stupid sister feels entitled to smack, push & shove whenever she feels so inclined. I can't stand her sense of entitlement and total lack of insight.

        It makes me sick how much she feels sorry for herself, because her ex fiancée left her. I know she's struck him multiple times. What did she expect?

        Double standards, whether they benefit men or women, always serve the most most proud and entitled of people like my idiot sister.
        :-(

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        • I dunno, Rose. She seems pretty entitled to me...To a slap. ;)

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  • αвαdσηтнєDєѕтяσуєя

    I think if your life is in danger and you have absolutely NO other option, shove the woman away. Rather push her away, because hitting someone back isn't self defense, its "you hit me so I'm hitting back".

    You don't have to strike back, and its wrong to strike a woman. I'm not a feminist and by all means, I think its sad how women use their gender to get away with murder (sometimes literally) but why hit her back, you know? Push her away and make a run for it.

    I've seen guys slapping a woman when a woman slaps them and it looks so disgusting. A man is always stronger and physically more likely to hurt a woman than the other way around, so I don't see it as fair if a man strikes a woman.

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    • TheTraumaWithin

      What the fuck...

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    • Riddler

      Why were they slapping each other? This sounds like the bitchiest thing I ever heard. Who slaps? Are you kidding me? Thats ridiculous.

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    • Crusades_

      You sir, are a mangina.

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    • Jesus. I'm with Crusades here. You do realize that by your standards men should not hit women back and should run away you are saying because men have MORE strength they shouldn't use ANY strength or the same amount, ergo you are saying it is acceptable for a woman to hit someone hey know won't back rather than a man hitting a violent bitch back, ergo you support people bullying others through violence more than you support someone hitting a violent person back.

      All you have done is make a double standard through sexism against both genders. Your standards are the disgusting thing here.

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    • 53739

      This is one of the stupidest things I have ever read on the internet.

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    • iEatZombies_

      There's literally no way someone can think calm, rational thoughts while someone rushes toward them with a weapon. You don't have time to think of 'should I shove, punch, bite, etc', you only have instinct. That instinct is 'Oh shit, I have to do -anything- quickly before she-- Ahh!' *Slam* *Crack* That's how quick it happens. Social standards come second to staying alive.
      As for the childish slap, it has no relevance to the question asked. Slapping isn't attacking. An attack is a harsh, relentless assault, not a pathetic temper tantrum.

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