Is it normal to help the person who left you?

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Lets say there was a girl and she tried to make all the guys chase her. There was 3 in particular she was after and decided to try for one of them if not all of them. Only one perused her though and that was you however she would not make a commitment since she was holding out for one of the other two.

One of the other two is the pursuers best friend. Who in the end they realize the Best-friend was willing to give the girl up for him. So eventually the pursuer gets impatient and gives up the girl telling her go with his best friend who ironically had the same exact intentions.

She ends up with the best friend since the pursuer gave BF the green light. However now she is jealous of a female friend Best friend already had since she is still hanging all over him. Would it make sense for the pursuer to still help this female after all this? Just out of sympathy as she now tells the pursuer about all the issues she has with the best friend. Yet the pursuer really wants to see his best friend happy with this girl and knows he likes her a lot.

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  • VinnyB
    9 years ago

    What the hell? Is this a relationship or an episode of "Let's Make a Deal"? I think she should trade all 3 of them for curtain number 2.

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  • iEatZombies_
    9 years ago

    I think you're three very blind mice. She seems like a one-sided bitch to me. She's entirely too focused on her own emotions. How do people fall for someone like that..? Anyway, this situation is going to get a lot worse if you both don't ditch her. She's going play leapfrog on all three of you. Just hop around to get the best of each til you're all three fighting each other and won't speak.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Do you think she is eventually going break up with my friend?

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      • iEatZombies_
        9 years ago

        That's what I'm saying. She's going to dump him, be with you or the third guy; dump that one, go with another one of you; etc etc. And when all of this is through, you and your best friend won't be friends, and she'll be walking out of your lives to wreck someone elses.
        Stop being close to her.

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  • Darkoil
    9 years ago

    Christ what a load of twaddle.

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  • JD777
    9 years ago

    Ug, she sounds like a case, best support your best friend. But seems you're in the middle of something you wouldn't want to be in the middle of.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Should I stay out of it? I kind of frustrated, I still care about her, and his happiness. I mean I could be angry over this but I am not I just want them happy.

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      • JD777
        9 years ago

        You're now in the position of being the sounding board as she dishes out complaints about your best friend. If he thinks you're understanding of that, he'll feel betrayed. As soon as she is done using you as the middle man, she'll dump you again or hang with you until she finds someone else. Sound good to you?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          9 years ago

          You think this is a plot? So what should I do about this? Should I tell my best friend?

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          • JD777
            9 years ago

            Man-up and tell your best friend she's talking trash behind his back and tell her you really don't want to hear about it. Then butt out.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              8 years ago

              I told him he said he already knew she was already saying all of this, I told the female friend and she was shocked. I told everyone everything that happened but not much seemed to come from it.

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  • harddrystickysocks
    9 years ago

    I hope you end up alone with a bad case of hpv.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      Why I didnt do anything?

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