Is it normal to have trouble dealing with mean and / or aggressive people?
I have the most trouble dealing with loud, aggressive, incredibly outgoing types and quiet, mean, anti-social types.
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I have the most trouble dealing with loud, aggressive, incredibly outgoing types and quiet, mean, anti-social types.
Well assholes are difficult to deal with.
Hence why they are referred to as assholes.
Usually people that have something wrong with them and choose to express their hatred for their lives by being an asshole. Then another asshole gets thrown in the mix and they make eachother's lives tougher because two assholes in one room is like letting loose to fighting pit bulls. They don't know that the fighting is why they are being torn up, that's just what they were trained to do-doesn't occur to them to stop. Assholes just don't understand how their own behavior affects others, but because they are assholes (and not quietly sitting in a corner) they bother us regular folks that are just trying to live our lives and pay our bills. The assholes eventually begin to believe that their way of acting is acceptable because by then, us normal people that would have loved to help them out are too pissed off to even want to lift a finger because, let's face it, unless you're self-esteem is -170, you're not going to let yourself be treated that way.
Thank you for your enrollment in Asshole 101 (commonly referred to by others as "life").
Just feel sorry for them and leave it at that.
TL;DR every party needs a pooper, misery loves company, and remember, their kids will be fuckin' with your kids too. Be prepared.