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I'm having problems to ask out a woman on a date. I feel scared to ask her cause I don't know if she's lesbian. I'm so awkward! Any suggestions?
If u know her, try to talk about lesbian stuff first and see her reactions, if she accepts the talk then ask her "would u dare to do something like that.." etc.. If she doesnt want to talk about it then she would likely reject u.
Rather than thinking of it as "asking her on a date" just ask her if she'd like to see a particular movie (maybe one with a Lesbian theme?) with you and eat together before or after the movie.
Finding out whether or not she's Lesbian is another matter, especially if you're not out yourself.
Tell her you have a kid then say it was just a joke and that you love and want to kiss her
I dunno, I imagine that would be quite difficult. I'm completely straight, and it's hard enough just trying to make friends with other women sometimes. I feel for you.
I also just want to say that I believe sexual preference is not a choice, but something we're born with. After all the stupid choices I've made with guys in my life it would make perfect sense if I gave up on them all together, and became gay, but I'm still straight. I know it's not necessarily related to your post, but I just wanted to put that out there.
Hang in there. God bless, and all the best to you.