Is it normal to have to know all your girls business?

Is it normal to feel that you have to know every intimate detail of your partner's actions, thoughts, or anything that exists in their life/day, and if you find out something, ANYTHING occurred and she didn't tell you, you feel like you were being punished on a personal level.

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  • IrishPotato

    No, it's not. It's destructive and you should try to stop doing that.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    No that's really weird. It's not only possessive, a lot of women do just find it strange when men get themselves overly involved in womens' business.

    Partners are actually more likely to get turned off or even cheat, if you exude that you are overly paranoid about that. That doesn't just go for women, it goes for men too.

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  • No it's not normal!

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  • RoseIsabella

    No, that's not normal at all! That is the way creepy losers who are clingy and have no life experience in dating think. As far as I'm concerned that sort of behavior is a deal breaker. It's so much better to be alone than be with a possessive weirdo like what you are describing. Fuck that bullshit!

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  • cipro

    Unless u suspect infidelity its not normal.

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  • I do allow her space, I just ask to be included in how her day went. I cannot help how I feel. When I am not with her I think about her and I hurt. When I see her after the many hours apart, I get so excited. I don't really need her to tell me because I feel her and k ow her so we'll, I just respect being informed. Again, she is allowed to do whatever please her.

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    • Ellenna

      You can't help how you feel, but you CAN help how you behave and if you keep this up, because it's intrusive and obsessive and definitely not normal.

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