Is it normal to have this fantasy?

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I am a lonely researcher in a laboratory. Sometimes I fantasize about a young beautiful college girl working with me as a laboratory assistant. We would bond over spending long hours in the laboratory together and I would get the privilege of knowing about her personality and interests. I would do anything to make her feel comfortable. I would try making her laugh and impress her with my knowledge and good heart. Then one day near Christmas there would be a holiday party and she would get all dressed up. Her hair that was normally in a bun would be down and I'd be able to see her lovely long naturally curly hair, she would not be wearing glasses and I would be able to see her amazing eyes, she would have on makeup that she usually didn't, and instead of a boring lab coat she would be wearing a beautiful blue dress that emphasized her feminine curves. And the best part would be, she would know who I was, finally a beautiful woman would acknowledge my existence, and be warm and friendly with me. All this time she was hiding her beauty but now that I had the opportunity to know her intimately she would be radiant with awesome qualities and shine brightly both inside and out.

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  • Steve-2.0
    8 years ago

    As a researcher, you have the responsibility to not be distracted by such silly things as that.

    You should send your fantasy to Nicholas Sparks though, it's actually a decent plot for a chick flick.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    https://youtu.be/tBIps187MKk

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    Normal but sad .... what stops you from finding a real girl to have a relationship with? Presumably you're not stuck in the laboratory 24/7?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      social anxiety

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      • Ellenna
        8 years ago

        Fair enough, but it's not 100% incurable is it?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          I have low confidence and feel that I don't deserve anyone. That any woman would get bored of me because of how uninteresting I am. And that any woman can do something better with her precious life than to spend (or rather, waste) her time with me.

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          • Lonely2
            8 years ago

            Counseling and meds may help...I have a lot of social anxiety and low self esteem and they helped me...not cure but reduce it enough that I can socialize

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          • Ellenna
            8 years ago

            That seems a very dreary and boring way to live and you haven't answered my question above: who diagnosed you with social anxiety and what treatment was offered?

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  • amezng
    8 years ago

    Mehdik!

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  • SheWolfie45
    8 years ago

    You are a Sad little Man. Shame, Go speed dating or Whatever... Stop Nerding and Drowning in your Sadness.

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  • Tealights
    8 years ago

    Then why not go out and meet people?

    You have the knowledge and a career that most dream of having. Why not go to colleges and inspired students, point them in the right direction. Get active. If you want a hot, smart college girlfriend who is interested in the same thing, you can't get her by just sulking and being lonely, you have to be passionate about what you do. If you have a lot of passion in your work, inspire others, and grow as a person, then someone will notice.

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