Is it normal to have these thoughts?

I am not a violent or aggressive person but every time me and my mum have an argument I just get so angry because her points of view are always pathetic and she always accuses me of being a liar, being thoughtless, being nasty, being useless etc. Nobody else ever says these things to me, besides my brat of a brother who is growing up to be like her. Anyway, whenever we argue, I always have urges to hit or be violent towards her, but I don't want to act on them. For example, she started moaning at me about nothing earlier and afterwards I felt really angry and I thought about putting her head in between the door frame and the door and then repeatedly slamming the door onto her head. Whenever I think about her I get so angry, she's like a wicked witch. Is it normal that I feel this way towards her sometimes?

By the way I know I should respect my father and mother but my mum has no respect for me at all and she treats me like a piece of dirt the majority of the time.