Is it normal to have sexual thoughts about someone you're not attracted to?

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Let me start off by saying I am in a terrible dry spell. No sex in over a year. Feels like I could punch through a wall. Anyway.

My close friend is a dude, he's bisexual and very conventionally attractive. The guy has a lot of sex with a lot of people. He'll bang just about anything with a pulse, and I think he intends to. (I'm okay with being the doofy sidekick wingman friend.)

Not long ago, he and I were alone at his apartment, and he put his head in my lap/was being more touchy than usual which felt weird but I didn't acknowledge it. Then, someone recently told me in secret that he's attracted to me. Ever since then, I haven't been able to look at him the same way.

I've only ever been with girls. I've never been into dudes. But, the fact that there's a human being that actually wants to sleep with me after this awful sexless year is actually tempting. I would not mind having a friends with benefits situation, even if I'm not really attracted to him.

((inb4 everyone tells me I'm gay. I don't give a fuck. Sexuality is a spectrum. Some people just wanna bang the whole world, and some of us will take whatever we can get.))

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  • LuxM4G
    6 years ago

    Well, if your heterosexual you are going to have a hard time getting a hard on for a dude. Try to cover it up making him dress up like a woman and hiding his cock inside a thong for you to fuck him bareback.

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    • PoisonedRat
      6 years ago

      Did I mention its been over a year? Ill get a hard on for a particularly good looking piece of driftwood.

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      • LuxM4G
        6 years ago

        Then your bisexual mate. Go ahead try it on, just make sure he's checked for STD's, it's a really serious issue in the gay community.

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  • kelliekelliekellie
    6 years ago

    Wait, if you REALLY want to have sex, you already would have. Ever heard of Tinder? Face it, you just wanna bang that dude so you can be seen as the "cool" bisexual hipster dude that reads Buzzfeed and drinks protein shakes. Men classically fuck women, it just seems to me that you want some adventure because your brain is telling you you're too normal. By all means, fuck this dude. But it won't stop there pal

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