Is it normal to have sex only once per week or even few?

I have lived with my bf for nearly one year. We usually got one sex per week or even fewer. I am 27 and he is 33 and he has no ED or premature ejacuation problem. He is also health and go to gym twice a week. I even need to seduce him sometime. By the way I don't like that way. I insists that both of us should desire that. Sometimes, I even doubt whether I have attraction to him. Thus I want to check is it normal here.