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I'm a senior in my last days of highschool and i've never had a girlfriend not one and it's not because i haven't tried. so i was thinking why not date an under classmen just to get a feel for what a relationship is like. it probobly won't happen because i screw myself over somehow and there is no way to help myself.
| i see no harm but you'll be a scetch ball | 8 | |
| it'll be creepy | 11 | |
| go for it | 20 | |
| don't do it | 10 | |
| not the worst thing you can do | 7 |
IMO, although there is theoretically no problem with your choice, I would personally not do it, especially for the reasons that you have given. Honestly, my biggest issue here is that you seem like you are just dating for the sake of dating before you become an adult. Wait a little while - dating as an adult is much different than high school dating!
Besides, assuming that you were looking at dating any freshman as opposed to any underclassmen, I would be uncomfortable with the age gap. Yes, I know that depending on how old you are that you could be dating someone two chronological years younger. But being that young, the gap of three years in school would skeeve me out.
DISCLAIMER: I am actually a pretty big proponent of dating outside of your grade and/or school in high school. I am a very recent high school graduate who is dating a sixteen year-old who just finished his sophomore year. However, we have a relationship that is very strong and that developed for reasons aside from me wanting dating experience.
Why are you going all the way down to a freshmen? Dating an under class men is one thing but freshmen? You might as well be dating at 8th grader. If you are a senior what is stopping you from dating a junior or maybe a soft more? You are basically just taking advantage of the fact they are new and naive. Thats really pathetic if you ask me.
Hey, it's your life. If you want to date someone, then you should be able to date them.
I am going to say do not do it. It creates so much stress and drama and everything. I think just avoid it.
Depeneding soem think it borders on the line of pedophilia but you are forced to be stuck in the school for four years so im not sure what to say on this , however just remember not to have sex with them and that is a very contriversial issue " . Its technicly illegle but morrally thiers diffrent opionions