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Shes just 3 YO older than me, she had 10 sexual partners and she did nothing new with me that didn't do previously with other partners. I was virgin when I met her.
When someone ask her how many has had she always cut in half the number because of shame.
| Normal | 60 | |
| Not normal | 12 | |
| Get away from that relationship | 30 |
How old are you guys?
It's normal for someone to have more sexual partners than the other in a relationship. I have had more partners than my boyfriend who's 7 years older than me, but that resulted from him being so absorbed into his work life for quite some years that he didn't really have the time to go out and meet people, let alone have sex.
I personally believe it shouldn't matter how many partners someone has had. As long as you both have a good mental connection and make sure you both get tested before having sex, then all is fair game. There have been many times someone has contracted an STD or has gotten pregnant from having sex ONE time. So the number honestly doesn't matter.
And for the record, it sounds like she's been honest with you. I know a lot of women lie about how many sexual partners they've had. If you knew this prior to getting into a relationship with her, then you have no reason to be questioning her past actions now. You should have done that before becoming her boyfriend.
It's basically a morals question, most men view women who have a lot of partners as low moral and most guys don't want a woman that has already been with half the town. No matter how hard political correctness or gender equality tries, this will never change.
I feel like I had to explain this to you once before, but no, that last part about it never changing is pure idiocy. It's already changed drastically in the last half century, and especially in the last decade, and it will continue to change. People like you have become the minority and it will only get worse for you as time goes on.
No, it won't "continue to change". It doesn't really matter anyway since its up to each individual to determine how many sexual partners they have, but part of being an adult is learning to live with the consequences of your choices. No matter what happens social justice wise or gender equality or "political correctness" a woman with many sexual partners will never be viewed in the same way as a man with many sexual partners. It just won't happen. If you're deluded into thinking it will and you are happy thinking that, think whatever you want and do whatever you want.
But what you think is happening or will happen, will NEVER happen.
No it doesn't matter, my wife has had numerous sexual partners before and after we married but that doesn't stop us loving one another.
I had a long term relationship with a 22 year old girl that got drunk and told me she had been having sex since she was 9. Starting with getting licked, fucked and sucking her step dad. And had had all of these acts with around 200 guy's. Most were 10 or more years older after she was 17.
You sound like a moral and good person, how did you end up with a slut? You deserve better.
And she's ashamed of you for not being a whore like her? Disgusting.
I voted "Normal" because unfortunately it's common now for women to sleep around under the guise of female empowerment.
I'm not sure I even understand the question, to be honest. Which part are you not sure if it's normal? The fact that you were a virgin when you met her, the fact that she had 10 partners before you, or the discrepancy?
Either way, all three are perfectly normal.