Is it normal to have my first crush as an adult?

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I am not sure why I didn't have any crushes when I was under 18.

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  • Mark92
    5 years ago

    I had many crushes in my life, but my girl friend whom I met in my work place (we are co workers) and have been dating for 3 years, she moved in with me last year...

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Having a crush is an overrated thing. It's usually just a distraction that causes a person to feel anxious and unable to eat, sleep or concentrate. It's not that different from being crazy.

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    • gxdezlh
      6 years ago

      I have multiple crushes right now and I'm fine. I have a great appetite and I don't have insomnia at all. I am mentally ill, but it's not because of my crushes. Maybe I just lucked out.

      I would say I am a little crazy over my crushes though. But not to the point where it's debilitating.

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  • imadick
    6 years ago

    normal af

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  • gxdezlh
    6 years ago

    Even fictional crushes, I didnt have any as a minor.

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    • satanniggasandpopsicle
      6 years ago

      I think I might know why.

      Maybe subconcious you thought it was wrong to have crushes since you were under the age of 18. And now that you're 18 you feel that its okay at this age to start having crushes.

      Because you were brainwashed (by society) into believing that having crushes under the age of 18 was bad?

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      • gxdezlh
        6 years ago

        No, I don't think so. I think it's normal and expected for children to have crushes.

        I had my first crush at 19, the age I am now.

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        • satanniggasandpopsicle
          6 years ago

          Oh maybe you just didnt until now. No big deal

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  • Ratmanwakes
    6 years ago

    Maybe you're gay?

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    • gxdezlh
      6 years ago

      I'm not homosexual.

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