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I love my boyfriend and all but there are ALOT of times when he gets on my nerves.
Sometimes I look over at him & start planning out ways to take him out & think about how much easier my life would be without him.
But then I realise I'd be lonely and miss him so.
So is it normal or psychotic?
I hope you have taken out a life insurance policy on him and can figure out how to "do him" accidentally. Just remember, it's pretty hard to get a date if you get a reputation as a black widow.
"Sometimes I look over at him & start planning out ways to take him out & think about how much easier my life would be without him."
Just break up with him then.
I think it is probably normal.
Thoughts are not a problem, it's how you let them affect your actions that is important.
Its normal.. men drive women crazy its just a factor of life. If you really legit want to kill him and they progress from feelings to planning i would get some help.
It's not normal to have them regularly, but I think you have them because he either hurt your feelings really badly (maybe from not being faithful) or maybe he's just that annoying. I used to have these thoughts A Lot. Just don't act on them. If you feel like you're tempted then you need to just leave.
Completely normal with girls who lose feelings for their bf, but are too insecure and lonely to break up with them.
Uh...no...you can be really pissed at your bf but to have murderous thoughts. No really.
Plus he trains in MMA & we have numerous discussions (jokingly OFC) about how I'd defend myself if I were to fight him. (E.g. if he were to choke hold me I'd opt for the eye gauge then crushing of the balls etc)
I think I've been watching too many horror/action movies. Most of my scenarios involve kill Bill like assassinations. Plus most of the stuff that gets to me is his constant cussing towards me & the double standards we have
What does he do to get on your nerves and make you think these murderous thoughts? Are they bad things like cheating or just annoying things like the way he blows his nose? A better option would be to leave if you really feel you want to murder him and that your life would be better off without him.
Its not normal on my side,i mean, by th time u start getting murderous thoughts ,the person is getting to ur head,y not calling it quits b4 u do sm shit u'll regret,?
A rlshp should be balanced with good and bad feelings NOT "good and dangerous" .take things easy please