Is it normal to have more than a friendship, but less than a relationship?

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okay, I know this is such a stupid question,and it's really bothering me so ya,
I'm with this guy, and we're dating, I guess you could call it that, but you see. We're not like a 'normal' couple, we hangout whenever we can, and we talk whenever we can, and it looks like we're just friends, but when we are together it's obvious that we are dating. And I know I should know and everything, but like, I don't and I was just wondering what people's opinion is?

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  • MilleBornes
    11 years ago

    LOL you're in a transition phase. You two just need to commit. Why have you not committed? Do you know his reasons? Are you already having sex? Hopefully not. No judgement either way but here's my thought if you are. He's in the most perfect relationship a man can be in. A beautiful woman who's not clingy, fun, and great sex. I would be in heaven.

    That's if you are having sex.

    Again, we men are simple and rarely do things go our way when it comes to women You two have something great and he's PROBABLY scared of ruining that. Meaning, you'll probably have to make the decision to put a lock on your relationship. Establish it, is what I meant. To know you LOVE someone actually takes time. He may be kinda old fashioned like me and don't want to throw that word around just cause He wants to be sure. So, if you're waiting for him to say love, and if that's your deciding factor, then be grateful he's not rushing. It would hurt to tell you that then he starts to back out because he feels he's moving to fast.

    Basically, if you're ready to establish the relationship, then find out, from yourself also, why you haven't already and address it.

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    • bitchtits101
      11 years ago

      well, no, we're not having sex. Before he had asked me to date him he was wanting to sleep with me, but now that we're actually sort of dating it's different, and he has said that he was starting to fall in love with me, but he hasn't actually said it in person, and i'm totally okay with that, I'm not trying to rush things, and he knows that, could that be why we don't always get to talk and see each other? He said that he wanted to spend more time together, but he's not really making an effort to do so. That's what really confuses me :L

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      • MilleBornes
        11 years ago

        Sadly for most men, saying you want more is trying. We expect you to be SUPER excited just by telling you. Yes, we are retarded. Our actions depends on yours. If you seem ok with how things are going then he doesn't want to make the wrong move to push you away. As I said you may have to make the defining move.

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        • bitchtits101
          11 years ago

          okay, yeah, but I don't want to be "that kinda girlfriend" the one who's clingy, and obsessed. Like, I don't want to seem like i'm bugging him.

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  • bitchtits101
    11 years ago

    thanks! ^

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  • bitchtits101
    11 years ago

    okay, no need for a reply. He ended it. He's just "not ready to have a girlfriend right now,"

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    • hermione
      11 years ago

      he is a gutless pig who wanted you for sex and walked away when you didnt give him any, well done for sticking it out.

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  • bitchtits101
    11 years ago

    and what move is that? :s

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