Is it normal to have moobs?

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I'm 5'8", 145 pounds. 20 years old. I consider myself pretty good looking - not great, but not terrible - yet I have never had a girlfriend, and I attribute that to having moobs. BEFORE EVERYONE SAYS EXERCISE, if you look up gynecomastia, you'll see that you need surgery to get the problem resolved.

So I'm wondering. Honestly, I don't care if it's harsh, would you ever date a guy who was, besides his moobs, good-looking, nice, and funny?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Honestly if the guy was nice enough, I wouldn't care one bit if he had moobs.
    People are people we all have our flaws, but the people that love us for who we are look beyond them.

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  • Koda
    9 years ago

    I know a guy with gynecomastia, but it's not severe. I don't think it does much to detract from his looks, but I'm a guy, so...

    The first time he came to my house in high school, I told him to bring his bathing suit so we could go swimming in our pool. When he said he "forgot" his, I told him I had an extra one. He made a bunch of excuses during the day to avoid going swimming. I put two and two together and decided he must be self-conscious. He wasn't fat, so I thought maybe he had scars or something. I asked him, and he told me not to laugh, and told me about gynecomastia. He showed me, and it was zero deal with me. He said it was a relief to be able to go swimming without a shirt and not be made fun of, as his brothers and sisters always made fun of it at home.

    Fast forward to today, and he's a got a great longterm GF. I guess she doesn't mind at all, because he's never gotten surgery. Now that he's more mature, he has the confidence to take his shirt off at the beach. Maybe some people stare a bit, but that's their issue, not his.

    If your case is severe, it's up to you whether or not you think it'd be worth surgery. If it really is preventing you from being attractive to girls, and it shows through your clothes, it's definitely a consideration.

    Good luck.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You can work out more to turn those moobs in to a part of te package makem hot :P jk

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