Is it normal to have mixed feelings about being with a stripper?

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I've been involved with this lady for over a year. She calls her work exotic dancing but she's a stripper at a relatively fancy bar.

Sometimes she has to have dinner or drinks with some clients, all male, however, she says it's no problem coz she's not attracted to men.

She promised to leave that job after she graduates (Art College) and she seems in love with me too. I'm a female btw.

I love her and never objectified her but I fear she and her friends might think I just want her as a trophy, since she's way out of my league but chose to be with me (we met in High School years ago. She was the hot girl I was the emo chick).

Is it normal I am insecure about this relationship?

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Based on 13 votes (12 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Everyones I’ve dated in the past I’ve had people tell me there out of my league but I was happy and didn’t care I wanted what I wanted and felt content. You’ve been dating over a year that’s a good chunk of time and I’m sure you know if you guys are happy and are in love. So I wouldn’t worry what other think and stay happy with someone who chose to be with you. If she’s stopping after college there shouldn’t be a worry if she keeps her promise. As long as both of you are doing good and she’s staying faithful ignore other people. If anything it’s not bad to have a talk with her and see where things are at.

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