Is it normal to have lost your virginity an older boy at a church lock-in?

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At lunch today I was talking with some of the girls from the county clerk's office and talking about our first time and all that.

They seemed shocked when I told them I lost my virginity at a Church youth group lock-in when I was in sixth grade. The boy was a lot older, like a senior in high school.

We had snuck into the choir directors office while playing a game of hide and seek in the dark inside this massive mega church that was bigger than a mall. It was on the other side of the church "so no one would find us". At first we both hid together in the closet in the office and that got us right up next to each other and touchineach other skin to skin. Then we started doing what a pre-teen girl will do with an older 18 year old teenage boy when locked in a closet together and we started making out and he just kinda going from there.

Is that normal?

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  • Murun
    6 years ago

    Sounds ok if you were both happy.

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  • Everette
    6 years ago

    Hell yea that's awsome

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Sounds oddly similar to another post here

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    My family belonged to the Seventh Day Adventists when I was a young teen.

    Adventists have a tradition of camp-meetings. Don't know what they're like these days, but in the 1970s, they involved families staying in a couple hundred canvas tents in a field, with a lot of sermons and Bible study groups from morning to night. The adults had their own activities, while different age groups of kids had theirs. It wasn't so strict that attendance was taken, so it was very easy for teens to tell their parents they were going to something, then sneak off the campground and get up to all sorts of things.

    It was at a camp-meeting that I first smoked pot, first drank alcohol, and first slept with a naked girl. She was pretty drunk, and even as a very horny 15 year-old, I knew it would be wrong to do anything more than have a good feel, so I didn't lose my virginity at camp-meeting. I knew guys who did, though.

    I think what you describe happening is not that uncommon. Take parents who are so hung-up on the evils of sex that they refuse to have honest conversations with their kids about it, and combine with teens who have the normal amount of curiosity and hormonal urges. The result is almost certain: sexual stuff happening whenever the teens aren't being watched.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    What the Hell kinda church is that?

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    Funny thing about Jesus christians. he never heard of a church, and wasnt to happy about synagogues either.

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