Is it normal to have feelings for your best-friend while he completely doesn't?

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I recently came out and told my so-called 'straight' best friend I'm not straight, turns out he's not straight too. Best thing I've ever done, cos we are now able to talk about this stuff and we both didn't have that before; which brought us even closer. We've now encouraged each other to start exploring by dating...so we date other guys. Problem is, I'm head over heels in love with HIM (always been) and I'm INSANELY attracted to him (he's exactly my type)...very attractive dude. When he comes over...and has to leave to go home, you have no idea the pleasure I get when he hugs me (my heart skips a beat, I get hard and wanna come)...hehe he doesn't notice that for some unfathomable reason. Sometimes I hold him longer than I should (it's probably just a friendly hug to him). During one of our talks, he emphatically and thoroughly described his type...and it's the complete opposite of me ( ._.) cos I'm naturally skinny...in fact, he specifically said skinny guys just don't do it for him (he has no idea how I feel about him). Oh, and intellectual intimacy is there, and we both admire each other's knowledge. So guys, What can a lad do? Thanks!

let it go, it's never gonna happen 3
tell him, you might just be suprised 8
just kiss him, he'll definitely respond to it 4
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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    He explicitly told you you are not his type and besides, if he was remotely interested your radar would be bleeping like mad. Let it go. He's not interested. Stay friends and count your blessings.

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  • TheShirtLifter
    11 years ago

    I believe in The Truth - honesty.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    There's the problem perhaps...

    You might both be homosexual, but it doesn't mean YOU'RE the one he wants.

    I'd say... it's a risk. You can ask him out on a date or tell him the truth. He might like you anyway. The risk of course is whether or not you remain friends afterwards. And only you can decide if the risk is worth it.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    oh no thats not good you need to never let him nkw.

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