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Yeah. I'm 18 and I've decided to never be in a relationship or have sex for the rest of my life. It's not for any religious reason, but I feel like it's my destiny to die alone.
The only part of that story that I don't like is "die alone." Why should you die alone? No matter what sexual lifestyle you choose, I hope you don't want to die alone for self loathing reasons, you sound a little sad ... there... at the end.
My mistake I see it's not for a religious reason. If you feel it's your destiny CHANGE YOUR FUCKIN DESTINY
That sounds more like a decision made by someone who is suffering depression or a sense of hopelessness. Whatever the reason, 18 years old is a little young to be making a lifetime choice. What you feel now may not be what you will feel a year from now. Humans are social creatures and loneliness is a painful and empty mistress.
Wishing you the best.
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Have you ever done it?? If yes...
Have you ever done it with someone who knew what they were doing??
Not really normal, but don't let that stop you.
If you've given it thought and it's what you want, do it. However, just cause you're so young, I wouldn't swear by it, you may change your mind and decide to either try sex or you might find 'the ultimate One', and you won't want all your friends saying, 'sooo, what happened to you being celibate,' 'couldn't resist?'..
Live how you like, but don't avoid everything that spurs your curiosity.
My mom has been for 15 years and plans to keep it that way. It's not normal but it works for some people.
U don't know what ur missing out on! Sex is amazing......fuck, it's how we create new life. How could you not want to be a part of that???
Don't lose hope yet. That last part sounded like you are really depressed. I'm guessing you've gotten your heart broken and tried sex and found you couldn't enjoy it. Well, I lost my virginity to my first love who sucked at sex so badly that even masturbating couldn't get me in the mood. Then he broke my heart. I made the same pact as you, but be open. There could be some sexually talented man out there just waiting to steal your heart away after he gives you the best orgasm of your life.
I made the decision too when I was 18. But that's because I'm asexual. And actually it wasn't a decision lol.
It's the reason "I feel like it's my destiny to die alone" Why?
the problem i have with what you are saying is dieding lonely is not normal who care for you when you are sick,or cook that meal you really like or maybe you need to vouilteer for a overseas group helping others but do not died fu-king lonely you do not understand what is loneliness is i do and i do not want too go there again
You can have relationships and still die alone... but, being with someone makes you feel better. It's like a need rather than a decision.
It's normal for asexuals (check out www.asexuality.org to see whether you are one). If your not that it still fine and is your own choice but why do you feel you should die alone? Question your reason for this and get help if its due to depression/low self esteem etc
Why not just die now pussy and cock is the best why continue to live if you don't want either
And the world should stop spinning? This decision of yours means one less potential unwanted pregnancy or STD out there, as far as I'm concerned...
Hurrah!
Sadly, you don't mean it. You will eventually return to the world of the flesh...
It's all right to have strong opinions from time to time when you're young. One year when my favorite hockey team got eliminated from the playoffs, I told myself I'd never watch the sport again. Then my season tickets arrived and I didn't miss a game.
It's okay to not have sex or relationships for your whole life if you don't want to. It's a decision that can be easily revoked at any time, so I see no problem.