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I just kinda... made her up a long time ago when I was in a particularly lonely part of life. Even though things have improved a lot since then, it's like I'd miss her too much if I gave up on it. Should I even bother trying? If it's not negatively impacting anything else in life, what's the harm right?
It's only unhealthy if it turns into an obsession; as in Allie is the woman of your dreams, then no real woman will ever match up, unless she's like Allie in various ways.
Imagination is fine, but don't make it real or forget reality.
She's far from a "dream girl", to be honest. It started out that way, but it's almost like she slowly developed a personality of her own over time. Yes, I know she's not real (I don't talk to myself out loud or anything), it's more of a feeling.
But you still have good advice either way. When the time comes I actually want a real relationship, I'd gladly drop Allie. But for now, I'm content being alone so I can focus on other goals as much as possible like teaching myself to code.
Well its pretty normal to me as I did the same thing even now I talk to her in my mind mostly when I feel lonely
I do the same thing, create a personality for an inanimate woman who used to have her own personality... it's strange because I realize it could be totally different than the one I'm imposing on her.
I'm not entirely sure if you're joking or not, but yes. Her name is Allie.