Is it normal to have a spiritual connection to someone else when married
I have been married for 20 yrs and love my wife but have recently found a spiritual connection with my massage therapist friend. This connection with my therapist is mutual and we talk constantly about spiritual needs/ outlooks/ etc every time we meet. I have this strong connection with her but it's not a sexual one. I see her weekly and we embrace and kiss like we are long time partners and feel we are off friends . Is this weird?