Is it normal to have a master?

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Its my bf, he calls me pet or kitten.
I never thought I'd be into anything like that, because of ptsd and stuff.
idk what happened one day we where watching rick and morty, the next day im a kitten.
idk hes the first guy to actually turn me on too (before the whole master thingy)
im confused because my ex was a psycho and just decided one day i was a "slave" and didnt let me leave the room (he got into hard drugs real fast, he went crazy and i was younger), someone had to come take me out of there when i had a head injury and take me to the emergency room. and i never enjoyed anything, i never agreed to anything either so yeah. I know what he did wasnt normal, thats not the question. if your wondering why i didnt leave him... i did, he didnt leave me. literally broke into the apartment when i locked him out.
but now I'm so confused, idk if im a pervert because i have a master... and am cool with that (hes not a psycho or mean, its like a regular relationship with a secret) but its not like psycho was my master, hes just a psycho.
i have 1000 questions lol
first off whats the difference between a slave, pet, or kitten? there seems to be a huge one.
and am i a freak in a bad way now?
honeslty, i dont know much about this stuff, pretty much just aware it exists, not much details.

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  • Barbarella
    6 years ago

    I think you are trying to internalize very unhealthy stuff. RoseIsabella just left an abusive relationship. She can help you.

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  • Justmehere
    6 years ago

    It's really not normal, but up to you. I dated a woman who, upon my firty joking when first kissed her, she said "What's the secret word?", looking for please. I said "I dunno..Now?". That set her off with telling me "I like being told what to do", and "Be my master"..Was a little odd for me at first, but, got into it with her, even kind of liked it.

    Lately, I've been helping a female friend with some money and life issues, and, as she's a little PR hottie, knows how to do herself up to look good. I like her mid-back length hair down, as it's so sexy, so now, when we meet up and she's on her way, tell her "Hair down". She's another one who says she likes being told what to do. I'll play with her hair, yank it down, and tell her what to do. It works.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Fetlife.com is the website where you will get real sensible answers to these questions (from people that actually know what they're talking about)

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Dump this guy as soon as possible! Seriously, this isn't about some stupid kink or fetish. If you are an abuse survivor, especially if it was an ex partner, and or abuse originating from your family of origin there's a good chance that you may have some issues with trauma bonding.

    You need to research trauma bonding, gaslighting and narcissistic abuse. You're not gonna like what I have to say, but you honestly you need to take a break from dating entirely. More than likely you attract and are attracted to narcissistic abusers, and things aren't going to get any better for you until to start working on yourself, your recovery and your healing.

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  • Bipolarjetlag
    6 years ago

    🕯I will pray for you🕯

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      I suspect that you're trolling, but I think you need to pray for this one.

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      • Bipolarjetlag
        6 years ago

        😇🕯I will send some Angels and pray for you child😇🕯

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          Yes, please do.

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          • Bipolarjetlag
            6 years ago

            😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😑😇😇😇😇😇

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            • RoseIsabella
              6 years ago

              Hey, what's with the 😑?

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    slave kitten ? i dont have a pet do you?

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