Is it normal to have a guy complain because ur pussy is too tight only because
my guy and i have been together going on 3 years now...since the very first interaction sexually he has been an extremely fast nut. like he is suffering from some type of P.E. or something...troubles our sexual relationship because no matter what he does to try and control it--its gone...lol. its ego destroying for him and naturally as his partner i dont complain but damn it i want to get some friction for more than 45 sec to a min...seriously. he has even gone to the extreme to say that its because my pussy is too tight!! wtf? that is definately a complaint i thought i would ever hear come out of a mans mouth in my life...since when has too tight been a problem. slowly over time it is starting to take a toll on my confidence and self esteam. he has made comments about well maybe i need to go find a stranger and see if she can turn me on like u and see if i can last with her...naturally that devistated me to think he was humoring such a thought...wow..really is it me? after awhile im beginning to wonder cause he is mid to late 30s and says this has NEVER happened before to him or been a problem so maybe it is me. im lost. confused. frustrated. any suggestions? is it me? how do i deal with this problem and help him fix his? without letting it destroy me alltogether in the process. ugh!!!