Is it normal to have a big crush on my teacher?

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Okay so there is this teacher (shocker) and I have a VERY big crush on her. I'm very attracted to her in all the departments, but I can't do anything about it. She is married with kids and it sucks everyday to wake up and just know that NOTHING will ever come of this. I've already accepted that nothing will ever happen between us, and she knows how I feel about her thanks to a couple loud mouth friends telling her and my teachers. I'm so conflicted with this in my head, and I just need to know if it's normal.

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  • Steve2.00
    8 years ago

    Easy solution: if you're 18 or over, fuck her. If you're under 18, stop being a foolish little boy and focus on your work.

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    • RamennoodleMaster
      8 years ago

      That was terrible advice. Don't you realize that messing around with a married woman WITH KIDS creates a disaster for everyone involved!

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      • Ihopethisisnormal
        8 years ago

        Exactly.

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    • Ihopethisisnormal
      8 years ago

      I will be 18 this year, but it's not happening. She's married with 2 kids and I'm pretty sure her job is more important to her than a fling with a student.

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  • yourdeepestshame
    8 years ago

    Sex her

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    • Ihopethisisnormal
      8 years ago

      I wish. But, I don't want just sex. She seems like a genuinely amazing person and I want to just have normal conversations with her without her thinking I'm a total creep.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Sure. If you look back over the last several years you will literally see hundreds of similar posts. So yes, it is quite normal.

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  • blowhard
    8 years ago

    This shit's not real, and it's completely unhealthy to obsess about it. For you, I mean. You are just gonna drive yourself nuts. You sound normal and like you wouldn't harm her over this COMPLETE POST-ADOLESCENT FANTASY, so that's good. But you got to worry about yourself, too. Jerk off, move on, and forget about it. It's not happening. There will be other fish in the sea, and some day you will be older and understand that she is just a normal ass person doing her job. When that happens, you'll have your mature, well-put together, honest to god WOMAN. But not now, man. You aren't going to be having "normal conversations" with her, quite simply, because she is not your peer. Also, you can't even talk to her! lol... get over this, kid. The sooner, the better.

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  • deepdankstickygoo
    8 years ago

    You should just seek out one of your classmates instead. Save youself sone pain and get an attainable gal.

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    • Ihopethisisnormal
      8 years ago

      I've tried but no other girls my age attract me unless they have a more mature vibe about them. I really don't know what to do.

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      • deepdankstickygoo
        8 years ago

        You will figure it out. You could always find an older woman. Teachers are usually off limits and will never date a student.....usually.

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        • Ihopethisisnormal
          8 years ago

          This is never happening. That's what I can't get over.

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          • kittycatrelle
            8 years ago

            Have her meet you in he library and between the book cases kiss her cheek, then run

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            • Ihopethisisnormal
              8 years ago

              I have never even talked to her, so that's not happening, don't think I would ever do it either XD

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          • somedude11
            8 years ago

            Alot of us been there. But if you like more mature vibe go after milfs. Get a nice haicut, clothes,start smiling, start working, out be positive and happy, hit some clubs that are known for its older audience and milfs will literally fight over you.

            I know how you feel man...but what you gonna do, what doesnt kills us makes us stronger.

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