Is it normal to have a a responsibilty, keep it, but act as if you are single?

Often, it is worse to be married than to be single. AS for me, I mostly don't try to worry whether any woman I meet is married or single, just treat her as an equal, and if we are just platonic, or go under the sheets, so be it... Of course, if her significant other is big and mean and ugly and owns a gun, I'll probably practice more caution.. Anyway, do anyone I can, and then try not to blab it to the significant other (s), but warn them anyway beforehand in case they ever really DO find out, so as not to make it any shock. Be honest about everyonwe you know, how y9u feel about them, etc... so be it, they ought to understand, and they themselves ought to do it all the time, too. No more locking the box.. Sex and relationships ought to be enjoyed with any one and in any combination, MMF FFM MMFF Gangbang, one on one, anything you want, whereas a marriage ought tro be mostly an firm and true obligation to your spouse to provide a stable life for her/him and your kids to keep them from wandering the streets and bothering people... All that,, and all Love is forever. Anyone who disagrees has probably just been reading too much Cinderella or Grimm's. Anyway, I'm very horny jusat writing about this concept, and can't wait to find some other people who think so, too.