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My younger sister is 19, in college, and (unknown to our parents) she is in a relationship with a 53 year old man who is paying her student loans in exchange for sex with her. She told him that she wants to have his babies, but I know that's a lie and she's just using him.
No. I don't think being with anyone that's old enough to be your mother/father/child is normal (15 year+ gap). But what's worse is that the relationship doesn't sound genuine.
I know more than one couple who are more than 30 years apart in age. They are doing well.
It seems quite a few gals get into the sex industry to pay for their education, stripping, doing porn or being a prostitute like your sister.
I guess the true test of the girl's character is whether she quits when she has paid for her education, or continues on with that lifestyle because it's an easy way to make good money.
America certainly is the land of freedom and equality, were woman have to suck dick to get an education.
Dude, you are such a classless turd. Just exactly what slum were you raised in?
Seems logical to me. Is she 43 years younger? Do you pay for everything?
So you'd be sitting on the couch in your soiled boxers and wife beater drinking cheap beer, while the little wifey works as a waitress in some sleazy diner paying your way? That is if you could even attract a female, which seems unlikely.
As I said, Dude, you are such a classless turd. Just exactly what slum were you raised in?
He work fulltime, actually. Not to mention looking after horses, birds and dogs and running of a household on a daily basis.
I guess that's of no consequence, though, as he doesn't import soy sauce from Red China...
You're hardly one to call another classless, by the way.
I work and she works. We are a team, 50/50 partners. We don't buy into your 50's style man taking care of his little woman. Not to say I don't treat her with respect and class. I don't have to buy sexual favors from her, like you do with your hooker wife. You are old enough to be her grandfather, I'm sure you have so much in common and she loves you for who you are and not your money. As to which slum I grew up in, I didn't but I don't have to brag about my money to get a wife or make myself better about my lacking personality. I will leave that for you.
What does her character have to do with what she decides to do to support herself?
Easy? easy? EASY? You don't know what you're talking about - ever tried selling sex for money? I do it via phone line and even that's not easy most of the time, just necessary to keep a roof over my head
There's one caller who wants me to blackmail him to pay me $ or I'll tell his wife he's called me. He gives me all his contact details, which I can't use anyway under the sex line rules. He's called me 3 times in as many years and on the last occasion said if I'd do it he'd obtain a credit card in my name and put the blackmail $ on it ... which is a no no too, because I'm not allowed to reveal my real identity to callers.
He always has to hang up in a hurry because someone is coming and says he'll call me back later to make the final blackmail arrangements, but he never calls again for about a year, when he starts the process off all over again. I can't imagine why this scenario turns him on, can you?
The really weird caller calls himself The Barber and wants me to pretend to have a naughty teenage daughter I force into a barbers chair for him to shave her head. He's REALLY creepy and I always refuse to do it, he gets shitty with me and says "other girls" do it so I tell him to call them.
Occasionally someone requests incest or bestiality but we're not allowed to do that anyway, which they know, but still try it on.
Most calls last 2 or 3 minutes and the callers hang up when they come, without a thank you or even a goodbye.
I don't understand what upsets you about it: the age difference; that she's (you think) not being honest with the older man; that she's selling sex; that your parents don't know about it? Or what?
I feel like she's in a shady situation and it just doesn't feel good to me.
If you've told her (non judgementally) how you feel and she's ok with it, it's really none of your business, and you haven't answered my questions about what bothers you. If you're not prepared to examine your own attitudes about it, you have no right to judge her
I think it's ok for someone to worry about their sister's decisions, if they are asking other people is most likely that they want opinions /thoughts on how to help/advice her.
She's legally an adult but she's very young, she might make decisions she could regret. Being concerned is not necessarily messing with someone else's life. As long as, like Ellena says, you don't judge.
Have your sister told you she had doubts about this situation?
I salute your sister's initiative. She could be fucking a sugar daddy while she sits at home on her ass baking cookies. This way, she is earning a degree as well as gaining sexual knowledge on how to satisfy a partner's intimate needs.
my girlfriends bff is 20 and she is about to marry a 43 year old man. they have only been dating 3 months. ITS SO SAD.
I haven't got the stomach for that sort of thing. If something sickens me I can't pretend and make nice.
good for her especially if he is a good lover and when she graduates she wont have any debt and plenty of fucking experience under her belt