Is it normal to hate when your ex settles for an asshole version of yourself??

Soo after I broke up with my ex on a bad note.. we still talk and hangout because we have the same friends and surprisingly it isnt as awkward as i imagined, but i hate the fact that every guy she has gotten into a relationship with or dated after me looks and likes and does a lot of things i do but in a huge douchebaggy way. college humor got it right in one of the POV's when the guy said something like "do i need to be a dick to get more pussy". sorry for the vulgarity of that but im just saying it sucks that shes settling for such asshole men, when i would gladly take that position if it meant being with her. (not that i would be a dick to her but i hope u get the point)

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  • bigguy2010

    If I understand you correctly... YOU BROKE UP WITH HER. You caused the break up. She's free and clear to date whomever she likes, and it's none of your business, man.

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  • Crudhouse

    Forget these guys. If you've been with someone, you're going to have an emotional attachment to that person at some level FOREVER, and it's pronounced since you're always around that person. It's normal

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  • why do you care... i bet shes better then you!

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  • yeah dude if she broke up with you then shame on her but if you broke up with her shame on you i mean dude wtf you broke up with her do you expect her to just be lonely while u get to be with anyone else and shes not aloud sorry mate it doesnt work that way

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  • aussiewolf

    well like the above poster said, you broke up with her so what is your problem. if you dont want to see her going out with douche bags then dont spend time with her. and you are still kids, its not like she is going to marry any of those guys. chill out dude and it really is none of your business who she goes out with.

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