Is it normal to hate the idea of sex with guys?

im not lesbian, but im not really into straight sex either cause i hate the idea of a penis in me. its pretty gross but i still want to be able to have a boyfriend and have sex...?

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  • litelander8

    Sex is messy. But sometimes worth it.

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    • BleedingPain

      Never have period sex in a hotel with white sheets

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  • Wellyoudliketoknoweh

    You don’t have to like it, some just don’t
    If you’ve never done it, try it when u think it’s the right time and when you still don’t like it maybe ur asexual or something or yeah, just find it gross, I mean that can be
    I sometimes find the thought of it gross too, but it changes all the time

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  • RoseIsabella

    I hate the idea of sexual intercourse without a condom.

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    • bleedingdiarhea

      What if you were married to him?

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      • RoseIsabella

        Yes, only if I'm married would I be interested in sex without a condom.

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  • momwatcher69

    If you have "female toys" which resemble a penis, I'm not sure what you think is "gross" ?

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  • Holzman_67

    Yeah the dick can be mighty intimidating I mean it’s just one piece of a whole lotta trouble
    I would just stick to hard fruit, like cucumber. Just maybe heat it up for 10 secs in the microwave first

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  • Doesnormalmatter

    This sounds like the words of a virgin, likely one under 18.

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    • what does being under 18 have to do with hating the idea of hetero sex lol?
      ftr im 18+

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      • Doesnormalmatter

        Thinking sex is gross means that one sex drive is feeble. People's sex drives, particularly females, don't reach very high levels until later in puberty.

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        • Nikclaire

          That is not true at all.

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          • Doesnormalmatter

            Which part? Wikipedia agrees with me! For guys the peak is a lot younger than it is for women.

            https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Libido%23Impact_of_age&ved=2ahUKEwjUx9m_v4bkAhUPKqwKHVqeCAoQFjABegQICxAG&usg=AOvVaw0d1zeGi0MynpIVYyMcpaa9

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            • Wellyoudliketoknoweh

              I could literally just go on that site now and change what’s written there
              Just my personal experience, but being a female myself and mostly around girls at that age and them telling me things now about it, I can say it’s not really entirely true.
              Also girls hit puberty very early on
              Which means hormoooones

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            • Nikclaire

              You stated her sex drive must be feeble. I doubt that's true since regardless of her discomfort she still wants sex.

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        • einexile

          There's some truth to this. Sex is gross. The whole operation is disgusting the more you think about it. Our sex drives cut through that and make us want sex, not just in spite of how weird and yucky it is but in a sort of transformation of that reaction into a desire for what is alien and other to our own bodies. If you don't want that, or also if you just want filth and depravity, your sex drive is probably messed up.

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          • Doesnormalmatter

            Yes mate well said. That is why straight folks see gay sex as nasty and gay folks see straight sex as nasty(usually). Sex with all feelings removed is gross as fuck.

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        • Wellyoudliketoknoweh

          An no my highest was when I was in elementary school. Don’t ask, I have no idea, but I have kept it hidden well. I know many girls that were interested in it early on, they just never talked about it to people they didn’t really know I guess

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          • Doesnormalmatter

            Your highest sex drive of your life was in middle school? What the fuck man I have never heard of anyone having it that young.

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            • Wellyoudliketoknoweh

              Well, people r different and I am from another star

              But a lot of people my age knew what it was and I bet sometimes they thought about it too
              Like damn haha they started dating at like 7
              It was weird, but for some reason other than that nobody was ever bullied
              I still don’t get that constellation and we had some really aggressive and bitchy people, but eh

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  • paramore93

    Out of curiosity, what makes you want sex if it's so gross?

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    • well it doesnt have to be penetration i find penetration a lil gross. for example oral is ok

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      • Clunk42

        Them sticking a thing you think is "gross" in a place you can't taste and probably aren't looking at is a nope, but shoving that same thing into your face (literally) where you can taste and possibly see it is fine?

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  • Feedthepony

    Why do you think that only sex with guys is messy? and why do you think it would have to be grossly messy?
    You could have more or less mess free sex.
    Another thing is when you are hot and really into him the 'messyness' will probably you even hotter and make it more pleasurable still.

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