Is it normal to hate perfect people

Do you think it's normal to hate people, who are 'perfect'. I mean these people, who have their life together, are very popular, do sports every day, having good grades. This person is always nice to me and everyone else but I just can't like her. I don't know exactly why but she annoys me so hard. Something about that acting perfect I just can't stand it. It doesn't seem authentic too me.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    It sounds like they subconciously make you feel like a loser because they're winners. Its projecting.

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  • ellnell

    There are no perfect people.
    The ones i've gotten to know who appeared perfect always had many issues on the inside wether it was being messed up somehow or just deeply unhappy.

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  • AmourPropre

    It’s normal to feel insecure around people who you feel outshine you, if it’s too much, you don’t have to hang around with her or be her friend. She’s probably got enough friends as it is.

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  • sillygirl77

    There's no such thing as perfect or a perfect person that was already said, but I can't emphasize this enough

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    • Lillie

      Yeah I know but to me this person seems perfect and this is what makes me hate them

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  • Somenormie

    No one is perfect.

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  • RoseIsabella

    No, it's not normal to hate perfect people, because no one is perfect. It is, however, quiet common to by envious of people who are very attractive, and exceptionally good at whatever they set their minds to do. This is more about you, and your own insecurities than it is about the so called "perfect people". Don't compare your insides to other people's outsides; you have no idea what that person might be going through inside emotionally. Maybe those perfect people that you don't like spend a lot of time studying, practicing and generally just working hard toward achieving their goals?

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  • bbrown95

    The thing about these "perfect" people is that they are in fact, not perfect. They have issues of their own as well, but most people do not advertise their issues, so most people that aren't close to them won't know about them. The saying "you never know what goes on behind closed doors" rings true.

    Also, I wouldn't get too hung up on popularity, athleticism, or good grades. None of those things really tend to matter after high school or college, and so they're pretty short lived, and unimportant in the grand scheme of things.

    Whatever you do, do not compare yourself or your life to what you see from the outside of someone else's life. Another saying that rings true is "comparison is the thief of joy".

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  • DADNSCAL

    Let me tell you, “perfect” people are a myth. They’re people who are very good at projecting a normalized image of the ideal person. But if you were able to peel back the onion, you’d see the same human defects and foibles everyone has. Don’t be fooled, and don’t hate.

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  • Tommythecaty

    I’m not sure if that’s normal or not. I don’t assess others in much detail, they’re irrelevant.

    Good day.

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