Is it normal to hate nearly all in-laws?

I am not married yet but engaged. These people drive me nuts, I can't stand them, they're very STUBBORN, stuck in their ways, types of people.

They refuse to do nearly anything. When I say let's go to this restaurant, they'll say, "no let's go here". When I order pizza, they come over and then order chinese saying they had pizza 3 days ago.

When I suggest a movie to see, they tell me they don't want to see it (no matter what it is and it's usually thriller, drama or indie) and tell me they would rather see a romantic comedy or not go at all.

When I make VEGETARIAN food for them because they're VEGETARIAN and I'm trying to be nice, they'll say I got the wrong brand and should have asked them because it tastes disgusting or they'll tell me I should become vegetarian and why for the entire meal.

They complain about everything, first world problems are their thing. If they get a paper-cut, I'll know about it for 2 hours.

I can not stand them. Luckily, my fiance was raised by his father not his mother or his mother's husband like his 2 sisters and brother were.

It is sad to me that I hate them to pieces but can't help it. IIN? Is there a way to ever become okay with them? They drive me up the wall every time I see them. I wanted to be friends with at least ONE of his siblings but his sisters both basically hate my guts and his brother is a know-it-all. His younger sister barely even talks to me and last time she did, she said I was lame because I didn't want to see fifty shades of grey with her in theaters as a "joke". She's only 15.