Is it normal to hate gay people???

Hi
My name is David and I am 24 years old.
Ever since growing up, I was raised as a Christian and grew up to believe that Homosexuality was a sin. I have a Uncle that lives far away from me that is gay, even though my other family members support him ( except for my dad) they also rebel against homosexuality. I remember also when I was a child that I was sexually abused by a homosexual that resulted me to become extremely
hateful towards gay people.

Now whenever I look at Gay people, I want to Barf' do something evil to them or I feel like I need to kill them. I hate the whole I idea of Gay-pride and it makes me sick to think about what they do together behind closed doors. I also have the feeling like they are some kind of black Demons waiting to take over the whole entire world with homosexuality.

I don't know what to do, I don't want to live the rest of my life with hate in my heart; but I can't help it, It's getting to the point where I'd even make cruel comments to certain people that I often end up feeling guilty afterwards, but at the same time' it feels good.

Please help :(

Voting Results
31% Normal
Based on 71 votes (22 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 29 )
  • Tempest-au

    Time for the devil to quote scripture...

    Jesus died on the cross for EVERYONE's sins, including the gays. Also, judge not, lest Ye be judged. Leave it to God to sort it out in the next life.

    While your sexual abuse is very unfortunate, you need to blame the person, not their sexuality. If every woman who was raped/molested by a man used the same argument as you do, then there'd be about 10-15% more man hating lesbians in the world.

    If it makes you sick to think of what they do behind closed doors (which I can't blame you for, kind of makes me a little grossed out too), then don't think about it. The fact that you ARE thinking about it makes me wonder if you're not entirely straight yourself.

    Live and let live. Treat them with charity and forgiveness, just like your bible tells you to treat all people with. Alternately, be a hypocritical religious fucktard like most Christians are and carry on being a bigot. Just remember when you face your Heavenly Father, you will be held accountable for your own sins too.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • terra

      Would you criticize gay people who are bigots? I'm trans and I've met gay and trans people who are bigoted, like making fun of disabled people or bullying people for how they look.

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • Tempest-au

        I despise bigotry, irrespective of where it comes from. I even despise myself at times when I say something that is a little bigoted.

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Azaman

    I don't know how to help you. There are plenty of racist bigots on here that will only encourage you to hate. I can't change their mind nor do I think I can change yours. That fact that you feel guilty for making cruel comments is a good thing.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • ihateuiloveu

    i wish u were born gay. ud understand then wat it is like tobe gay and hated

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#R8

      My love for hate makes we want to masturbate.

      Pulling the trigger, emulsifying the gay, mankind betrayed.

      Even FAGGOTS couldn't give blood to their own after the Filthy Faggot Florida hate crime occurrence because FAGGOT blood is tainted with AIDS and every educated fuck on the subject and his mom knows this.

      AIDS CURES FAGS

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • trampa7

        Fuck my dick and my phone

        Comment Hidden ( show )
          -
        • LittleGirlRapedAndSodomised#R8

          What do you use Android or iPhone?

          Comment Hidden ( show )
            -
          • trampa7

            i used to use a android until my fat ass stupid brother took it away from me.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
          • sex_addict

            Microsoft, so you'll likely get a virus.

            Comment Hidden ( show )
  • SirChazwick

    You seem very immature and undisiplined for a 24 year old. Hating people for what they decide to do in their own privacy is idiotic and says more about you as a person than the gays you hate for dumb reasons.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Shmendan

    Please seek help. I am bisexual, i don't know if you christians hate bisexuals too, but whatever

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • finn

    Sounds like you're a closet gay.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • _Mehhh_

    Right and I bet you're not a virgin, and more than likely you drink and use condoms too.

    Nobody is really that religious in The Western world anymore... until the topic of either homosexuality or abortion comes up, then suddenly the population of zealously pious Christians increases 10-fold.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • ihateuiloveu

      i agree

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • You're um...um... A bigot...and...a-and....and a homooooo.... Homooo....homophobe! That's the word. Ya, you're a bigot and a homophobe! Upvotes please?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • NeilYounger

    I find your post interesting for two reasons: I am a Christian and a homophobe. It would seem that the two would go hand in hand. But in today's world not all of my fellow Christians are homophobic. They would certainly not condone homosexuality, yet they would approach it with a forgiving heart. I am begining to do so myself. And you had a traumatic experience as a younger person that has conditioned you all the more to hate gays. But I can tell you that my once rabid homophobia has begun to mellow with age. I am even able to make really stupid comments about people I suspect as being gay (as a certain commenter to this post can readily attest to), that are said in jest. I could not do this is the past. But this change of attitude of mine took a number of years. I am a lot older than you. The bitterness you feel now will fade as the years go by. You seem like an intelligent young man. That God given intelligence will help you get through this and many more dilemmas you will have to face. The answer here is to not only to keep your faith, but to embrace your faith even more. Have a wonderful day.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • Tempest-au

      Love you too Ratty. ;)

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • trampa7

        Haha u troll

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • sex_addict

    Rather than curing people of "the gay", I'd like to see us cure people of religion.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Potatoskins

    I understand. I'm a girl who is actually legitimately afraid of the LGBT community. It's the presentation and the stereotypes they live. It's Rio on steroids. Being an introvert I cannot stand the stereotypical attention-seeking "faggots", the rebellious teen girls and the actually truly mentally ill. But I know a man, very calm chill "real" man, who doesn't shove his sexual preference in your face. He comes out respectfully, not proudly, and being gay is not his entire life. What you may hate is the attention-seeking will-do-anything community, but there are a handful of people who are gay that are not demonic. Just please let this pass until we get hit with another media phenomenon because it's just a phase, America. I really don't want give any more attention to those freaks than they deserve.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • mysistersshadow

    Maybe a better course would be to live and let live. How are other ppls activities hurting you?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • datboi222

    Sit on a cock wobble it in your ass for awhile.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Birdprince

    iin that you want to literally murder people for their preference of sticking their cock in another mans ass rather than a vagina.

    seek help immediately.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • ThatScarletteGirl

    You know I'm bisexual and I don't think its sin but when I see men kissing men I feel kind of weird. I'm not hating on gays I just find it awkward...people have their own choices and its not about homophobia. Some people might accept gays and some might hate but ut doesn't matter but bullying is absolutely wrong. When I told my friends that I was bisexual they bullied me so I know how it feels when homosexual people gets bullied.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • trampa7

      I'm bisexual toom pls add me as a friend where do u live?

      Comment Hidden ( show )
        -
      • ThatScarletteGirl

        I'm from Asia

        Comment Hidden ( show )
  • ihateuiloveu

    altho i feel bad for wat happn to u in childhood. i hate dat abuser/molestors..!! i myself was raped by my cousin when i was 12 years old. but i forgave him..which might hv led me to being gay myself.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • DolphinAngel

    In this situation, I would advice you to get professional help since it doesn't seem like you're over what happened to you as a child which plays a major role in your homophobia coupled with what you've been taught whilst growing up.

    Comment Hidden ( show )